Ok guys, according to me, this is a seriously complicated case...

My sister's friend, she's only 16

I know she is underage, but I'm not looking for any sex-drive here.
And she's still young and that's great because she can grow with me and I'll be the first she'll experience decent stuff with and that would lead to a healthy relationship.

The problem is, she's nearly best friends with my sister.
She is DEFINITELY a 9/10, if not a 10/10.

So where's the problem?

I'm above-average looking. Great physical body, around 1.83 meters, and an above average looking face. In other words, girls find me attractive, but I'm not saying I'm model-looking or anything. Just opinions of people.

The main question stands: Is there a chance with this girl? I mean I would definitely date her and see where it goes, but how should I start?

I disagree with the above post. Here in Europe the age of consent is 16.

It all depends on the girl. Some 19 year olds aren't ready for sex and yet some 16 year olds are maturer than the 20 something guys they date.

Go for it. Lots of relationships start with sibling's friends. Imagine if it was the other way round. Imagine your sister had the choice of dating one of your buddies who you knew was a good guy or some douche who would dick her around.

Heres what you really have to think about. right now at the age of 21 your still at that point of well shes only 16,

(pull hair omg wtf is wrong with me I can't and shouldn't be doing this)

Wanna know a secret many guys learn years later?...........

when she turns 17 or 18 and shes moved her interest onto someone else. because you didn't atleast attempt something your gonna be kicking yourself for not trying. If you do try later when shes older and she turns it down. you will be kicking yourself saying why didn't I try then.

you have to ask yourself three things if your not looking for sexual relationship:

1. do you dig her style
2. do you get along
3. do you have common interests
4. do you both give each others IOI's
5. will you regret not going after her years later

If all 5 questions are yes

stop kidding yourself and give it a shot just make it clear the fact shes underage kinda worries you, only when things get to physical cause lets face it. when two people are into each other its going to come up.

Like I said though 3-4 years isn't really that much difference and will seem like nothing as you get older.

MANY GUYS GO THROUGH THIS

almost all of them regret not taking the shot with the signs where there

16 is too young. I don't care if it's a law or not wherever you live. She's gonna be totally different when she hits 18 and she's gonna change again when she turns 20. She's still growing mentally. You're talking in a way that you'll have control over her because you'll be her first experience and that's scary. You expect her to "stay loyal' to you like she's a dog. I see nothing but crazy expectations and a total disaster with your way of thinking.

If you wanna date her.... fine... but don't be surprised if you 2 grow apart. and don't expect her to be loyal to you just because she's your first. Don't expect to be with her forever just cause you're her first

Man up and talk to an older woman. Stop giving this guy advice unless you want to be an accessory to statutory rape!