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Author:  BrianD [ Thu Oct 10, 2013 3:10 pm ]
Post subject:  How would you respond?
What's up,

Anyway, been speaking to this girl on OkC, I get her number, give a little text, phone her and have to leave a voicemail. I then text the following day with a little quirky remark, here's the reply:

(...)
Girl: Just listened to your message! You're funny and you have a very nice voice. Unfortunately last night I went on a date and it was a good one.
(2 mins later)
Girl: Too bad though
(A min later)
Girl: FYI I genuinely feel bad, you're a good one. X

I'm a total newbie, so I was left a bit baffled with this. How would you more experienced guys read this reply? Is she shit testing me? Is she just letting me down? And how would you reply, if at all?

I was thinking of replying with something along the lines of "And you're not even gonna invite me to the wedding?", mainly because that's my sense of humour, but that probably sucks ball bags.

I'm speaking to a few others and I'm seeing another, but she was hot and I just don't know whether it's worth pursuing?

Cheers.
Author:  vicparkguy83 [ Thu Oct 10, 2013 3:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you respond?
Haha use that reply man!

I don't think its a shit test she is probably serious. Keep in contact with her, stay interesting, confident, playful but also slightly illusive. This new guy might not last long and when it ends in a pile of shit, swoop and that's your time.
Author:  BrianD [ Thu Oct 10, 2013 3:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you respond?
Quote:
Haha use that reply man!

I don't think its a shit test she is probably serious. Keep in contact with her, stay interesting, confident, playful but also slightly illusive. This new guy might not last long and when it ends in a pile of shit, swoop and that's your time.
Cheers for the advice man, I've sent that message. I think I'll leave it til the beginning of next week before I get in contact again. You got any tips about how I should potentially re-initiate the convo?
Author:  Il-Cavalieri [ Thu Oct 10, 2013 3:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you respond?
^^^^^ Agree.
Author:  BrianD [ Thu Oct 10, 2013 4:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you respond?
Quote:
^^^^^ Agree.
Nothing to add?
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Oct 10, 2013 5:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you respond?
Quote:
What's up,

Anyway, been speaking to this girl on OkC, I get her number, give a little text, phone her and have to leave a voicemail. I then text the following day with a little quirky remark, here's the reply:

(...)
Girl: Just listened to your message! You're funny and you have a very nice voice. Unfortunately last night I went on a date and it was a good one.
(2 mins later)
Girl: Too bad though
(A min later)
Girl: FYI I genuinely feel bad, you're a good one. X

I'm a total newbie, so I was left a bit baffled with this. How would you more experienced guys read this reply? Is she shit testing me? Is she just letting me down? And how would you reply, if at all?

I was thinking of replying with something along the lines of "And you're not even gonna invite me to the wedding?", mainly because that's my sense of humour, but that probably sucks ball bags.

I'm speaking to a few others and I'm seeing another, but she was hot and I just don't know whether it's worth pursuing?

Cheers.
" Lol thats dope. Good luck ;) "

Don't over engage her.. You'll only be rewarded her with additional attention that she doesn't need. "one date" doesn't change anything unless you're a bit out of touch. Send that and she'll chase.
Author:  BrianD [ Thu Oct 10, 2013 6:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you respond?
Quote:
Quote:
What's up,

Anyway, been speaking to this girl on OkC, I get her number, give a little text, phone her and have to leave a voicemail. I then text the following day with a little quirky remark, here's the reply:

(...)
Girl: Just listened to your message! You're funny and you have a very nice voice. Unfortunately last night I went on a date and it was a good one.
(2 mins later)
Girl: Too bad though
(A min later)
Girl: FYI I genuinely feel bad, you're a good one. X

I'm a total newbie, so I was left a bit baffled with this. How would you more experienced guys read this reply? Is she shit testing me? Is she just letting me down? And how would you reply, if at all?

I was thinking of replying with something along the lines of "And you're not even gonna invite me to the wedding?", mainly because that's my sense of humour, but that probably sucks ball bags.

I'm speaking to a few others and I'm seeing another, but she was hot and I just don't know whether it's worth pursuing?

Cheers.
" Lol thats dope. Good luck ;) "

Don't over engage her.. You'll only be rewarded her with additional attention that she doesn't need. "one date" doesn't change anything unless you're a bit out of touch. Send that and she'll chase.

Yeah I was gonna mention that one date doesn't change anything but I sent the text I mentioned above. No reply surprisingly :D

I'm thinking I should just ping her in a couple of days, after the weekend or something. Nothing needy, just a little jokey text, sort of thing I've been sending anyway? What you reckon?
Author:  Brantley [ Thu Oct 10, 2013 7:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you respond?
RUN AWAY!!! Is my gut reaction. One date and she's already "exclusive". Sounds like a nut case to me.

Your reply is pretty good though. Certainly hit's the nail on what I was thinking.
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