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Author:  KidoftheBlackhole [ Sun Oct 06, 2013 12:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Talking to ex after one year freeze out
Okay so here's a quick run down of my situation.
1. junior year in highschool. had no game, was a "nice guy", TOTAL AFC
2. dated a girl but i was very submissive and dlv and wasnt sexual to her at all
3. ended up breaking up and getting a "we're better off as bestfriends" speech and was very beta about the break up.
4. freeze out for a year, work on inner game and body language and all that good stuff, lost virginity and then f-closed 2 other girls.
5. she starts texting me with casual "how are you"s and what not.
6. she tweets about a college she wants to go to, I text her in reply about the tweet and make a joke related to it.
7. we go back and forth through text a little bit and I tell her we should hang out this weekend and she agreed.
8. we hung out, i DHVd, had amazing eye contact that even made her slow down her words and stop mid sentence, just looking into my eyes and said she forgot what she was even talking about. (i never made eye contact with people so this was probably very surprising to her and made her lose her train of thought) in other words, i was a completely improved person compared to how i was back then since i worked on my inner game so much. There were tons of IOIs on her part.
9. i tweet about wanting to go to knotts scary farm since ive never been there
10. she replys saying "lets go" and i tell her "im down" and she said hit her up whenever i want to go so she can start saving money up for it.

Now my question is where to go from here? this girl is what you'd call a "good girl", who still hasn't even lost her virginity. And I would be willing to pursue a LTR with her. So I mainly want to know how I go about that without coming off as the needy loser that scared her away in the first place, since she does seem to show a lot of interest in the new me.
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Sun Oct 06, 2013 12:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Talking to ex after one year freeze out
well 1st stop worrying about her being a "Nice Girl" don't let it stop you from advancing. 2 stop worrying about the OLD YOU, it's in the past!

Flirt with her, playfully touch her.... are you going on some haunted hayride? perfect place for her to grab onto you in fear. Make fun of her a lil bit for being scared. Seems like to me you've learned what you needed to learn just get rid of your past memories.
Author:  KidoftheBlackhole [ Sun Oct 06, 2013 12:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Talking to ex after one year freeze out
Quote:
well 1st stop worrying about her being a "Nice Girl" don't let it stop you from advancing. 2 stop worrying about the OLD YOU, it's in the past!

Flirt with her, playfully touch her.... are you going on some haunted hayride? perfect place for her to grab onto you in fear. Make fun of her a lil bit for being scared. Seems like to me you've learned what you needed to learn just get rid of your past memories.
The her grabbing on me part is exactly what I had in mind when she mentioned wanting to go there haha and yeah playfully teasing her about being scared is golden. I'll make sure I keep the past bs out of my head, thanks for the reply!
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