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| Author: | transforming [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 3:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | What is your method to pick up girls? |
What is your method to pick up girls? Which method do you think is relatively easy to master? |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 4:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is your method to pick up girls? |
The method where you really don't have a method. You just kinda are good with women. Act the way a guy who's good with women acts... You will also become good with women. Don't think so hard. Learn from people. |
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| Author: | hugge [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 9:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is your method to pick up girls? |
All methods and techniques that exist are just traits of men that are naturally successful with women (aka naturals). I suggest that you read about all techniques there are, but don't try too hard to learn them or "execute them" correctly. I encourage you to experiment and ask yourself "what happens if I do like this?". But don't overdo it. Instead, try to find out how naturals implement them in reality without even thinking about it. Then learn from them. And who are "they"? As it has always been through history, learn from the elder. Go to a club with a higher average age than you are used to (40+ for instance). Mingle around and get to know people, and watch them. Depending on how fast a learner you are, after a couple of weeks, months or years, you will probably see a pattern emerge. You will realize that the following behavior will maximize your success: http://www.traitsofthealphamale.com/77/ ... lpha-male/ But don't expect to live up to the whole list, since it is hard to do so. |
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| Author: | ChitownMaverick [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 9:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is your method to pick up girls? |
Every guy who gets laid a fair amount does the exact same thing: 1. Hit on A LOT of girls 2. Have the ability to recognize when a girl likes you, and escalate and go for the close if she does 3. Have the ability to recognize when a girl DOESN'T like you, and NEXT her immediately That's seriously it. All this stuff about "is Mystery Method better than RSD better than Natural Game better than Routines better than Speed Seduction" is nearly 100% useless bullshit. In field, you would not be able to discern one player from another or point out which "system" they're using (with the exception of Speed Seduction, which is very different). All the talk about that stuff is just nerds being nerds. Go hit on lots of women. Just open your mouth, and keep it open if they like you. |
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| Author: | Xoved [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 2:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is your method to pick up girls? |
Everyone is unique in his own way to be honest. For example, I tried PUA tactics from every book I read. Yes they helped me a bit, but I didn't really hook up using those strategies. Reading is all about picking things that you find are suitable to your style. My motto: Pick the best from everything. Soon you will develop and become better. Just stay on field, even if it is with guys or girls, strengthen your inner game and you'll do great. Good luck |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 2:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is your method to pick up girls? |
Quote: The method where you really don't have a method. You just kinda are good with women. Act the way a guy who's good with women acts... You will also become good with women. Don't think so hard. Learn from people.
Ye !!! |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 2:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is your method to pick up girls? |
Quote: Every guy who gets laid a fair amount does the exact same thing:
This shiz needs to be tattoo'd on everyone's eye lid's , KUDOS
1. Hit on A LOT of girls 2. Have the ability to recognize when a girl likes you, and escalate and go for the close if she does 3. Have the ability to recognize when a girl DOESN'T like you, and NEXT her immediately That's seriously it. |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 3:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is your method to pick up girls? |
Quote: The method where you really don't have a method. You just kinda are good with women. Act the way a guy who's good with women acts... You will also become good with women. Don't think so hard. Learn from people.
Yeah, i'm with you on that.I think methods are excellent for learning until you get to the point of confidence where you can approach a woman and not give a fuck what happens while not being a creep of course. Once I reached that point i've not had use of many methods save for some MM and SS theory. I don't generally neg but I do it once in a while to keep things witty. It helps with comebacks when you meet a bitchy woman or just in social settings like parties where you need to be a bit ruthless. You will come into situations where women will actually try to game you(I've had it happen once or twice where women have read and tried MM on me... Kinda weird). When you've read up on all this stuff it's too easy to flip it on them or just ignore it and be confident. I'm at the point where i'm generating a lot of attraction just with my confidence, posture and mannerisms that i've worked into my every day life. I've got a couple of women in work checking me out, two approaching me and when I go out i'm almost always approached in some form or another(Not counting "Do you have a light. What's your name. Blah blah"). That's just from posture, confidence and my mannerisms. Before this I was never approached. Still need to work on my mental frame... Needs to be more in line with just wanting to fuck women and nothing more, no strings attached bullshit. |
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| Author: | Xoved [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 4:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is your method to pick up girls? |
"No strings attached bullshit" +1 |
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