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Author:  startinglife [ Thu Oct 03, 2013 6:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Do I Have the Right Idea?

Indirect game - Hide your intentions at first (indirect) and create attraction by being indifferent, aloof, hard to get, teasing, and pushing and pulling.
-AFTER you have attraction, you become direct in your intentions by making it obvious that you are interested. Don't need push pull and ambiguity anymore or at least dial it down a lot. And instead focus on making her comfortable with you, being fun, and physically escalating. Near seduction phase, don't worry so much about making her chase you, but rather persistently pursue her (turn on) without being needy of course.

I'm a good looking guy and get attraction easily, but lost so many girls by staying in the attraction phase too long which eventually lead to girls moving on because they think I am NOT interested. I was continuously being ambiguous, hard to get, and pushing and pulling when all I had to do at that point was just show her that I like her.

If the experienced members can explain why this is right or wrong, I think it will help a lot of other members as well.

Author:  TheFury [ Thu Oct 03, 2013 7:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Do I Have the Right Idea?

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Indirect game - Hide your intentions at first (indirect) and create attraction by being indifferent, aloof, hard to get, teasing, and pushing and pulling.
-AFTER you have attraction, you become direct in your intentions by making it obvious that you are interested. Don't need push pull and ambiguity anymore or at least dial it down a lot. And instead focus on making her comfortable with you, being fun, and physically escalating. Near seduction phase, don't worry so much about making her chase you, but rather persistently pursue her (turn on) without being needy of course.

I'm a good looking guy and get attraction easily, but lost so many girls by staying in the attraction phase too long which eventually lead to girls moving on because they think I am NOT interested. I was continuously being ambiguous, hard to get, and pushing and pulling when all I had to do at that point was just show her that I like her.

If the experienced members can explain why this is right or wrong, I think it will help a lot of other members as well.
Your issue is calibration. You are not calibrating properly. You gotta adjust your game and not just stick to some template that doesn't make sense for the situation.

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Oct 03, 2013 7:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Do I Have the Right Idea?

Once again I feel like too many of you guys that are just "getting good" with women over complicate these things and that usually blows you out before you even get started. Whats with all of these terms, big words, and phases? Plently of guys were getting pussy as much as they wanted before there was a such thing as a seduction community.

There is only one term I agree with and that is "escalate".. You can escalate as fast as you want when you have the right attitude. This shit is easy guys, and once you start seeing it that way, your success will increase tenfold. It all starts in the mind.

Bury all of these terms and just go start approaching women and try to kiss them within the first 5 mins.. 90%... Do go mushing your face into theirs.. Just get in position and see what they do.. After enough rejections, you'll have this whole thing down. This game just needs to be simplified.

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Fri Oct 04, 2013 3:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Do I Have the Right Idea?

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Once again I feel like too many of you guys that are just "getting good" with women over complicate these things and that usually blows you out before you even get started. Whats with all of these terms, big words, and phases? Plently of guys were getting pussy as much as they wanted before there was a such thing as a seduction community.

There is only one term I agree with and that is "escalate".. You can escalate as fast as you want when you have the right attitude. This shit is easy guys, and once you start seeing it that way, your success will increase tenfold. It all starts in the mind.

Bury all of these terms and just go start approaching women and try to kiss them within the first 5 mins.. 90%... Do go mushing your face into theirs.. Just get in position and see what they do.. After enough rejections, you'll have this whole thing down. This game just needs to be simplified.
I like this. Quit worrying about all this DHV bullshit. Assume the value... Fuck all the bullshit. Just make it happen. Be a closer.

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