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Author:  Kupid [ Thu Oct 03, 2013 9:35 am ]
Post subject:  Communication Problem
Hey guys

I stumbled up on a bit of a sticking point... basically my general communication with people is getting worse and worse. Where as before I was communicating just normal like a normal person to person, now I'm failing at the basic communication with girls, my firends and my family, I think the problem most likely came, cause I read a lot of material on communication skills and now I try to micro manage every little thing and get into my head a lot. As a solution I'm trying now to get into the moment by meditating every day for 6 months now, but I don't see any progress.

If you got any tips on how to communicate well, I would be more than glad to hear them, just don't recommend me another book :D

Thanks K.
Author:  vicparkguy83 [ Thu Oct 03, 2013 11:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Communication Problem
Man you basically answered ya answered ya own question. I had this same problem a few years back, I was studying heaps of PUA stuff but for some reason going backwards, so I'd study more and go even more backwards. There is DEFINITELY such thing as studying too much, you overthink everything and you mind just gets clogged with pointless information.

I started meditating a bit a while after and that was the ticket. Try some mindfulness exercises too, they work awesome infield and in life in general. For me meditation and mindfulness helped my game consistency more than anything I've tried, and it makes everything more fun too.

So yea man keep up the meditation, and PUA study should only be done in small doses.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Fri Oct 04, 2013 3:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Communication Problem
Quote:
Hey guys

I stumbled up on a bit of a sticking point... basically my general communication with people is getting worse and worse. Where as before I was communicating just normal like a normal person to person, now I'm failing at the basic communication with girls, my firends and my family, I think the problem most likely came, cause I read a lot of material on communication skills and now I try to micro manage every little thing and get into my head a lot. As a solution I'm trying now to get into the moment by meditating every day for 6 months now, but I don't see any progress.

If you got any tips on how to communicate well, I would be more than glad to hear them, just don't recommend me another book :D

Thanks K.

You need to get out and start really internalizing all this shit you've been reading about. Sometimes, overstudying is a bad thing...

Think about it this way.... A guy goes away to college and gets a business degree. Graduates with a 3.8 GPA or whatever. Tries to start a company.... FAILS miserably. Because he doesn't have any REAL WORLD EXPERIENCE.

Reading and studying all this shit can be beneficial but it can also hurt you too. You start to over analyze shit. The best thing you can do is TURN OFF that part of your brain when you go out and just start doing it. It's all fantasy to you right now... Go out and make it your reality.
Author:  Kupid [ Sun Oct 06, 2013 11:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Communication Problem
I looked into these mindfulness exercises, man that is some really great stuff... although it can get a bit dangerous if you take those too seriously, cause than you can become completley emotionless, but if you do it in a healthy dose it helps :P

Thanks to both of you for your help

K.
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Sun Oct 06, 2013 12:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Communication Problem
“Master the instrument, master the music, then forget all that shit and play.”
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