I guess finding someone worth keeping isn't that easy for some of us.
The way to look at it my friend is, okay, so you've hit 40. You're feeling down about some things, maybe not finding true love, maybe not fulfilled your potential - whatever Your situation might not be the best. But it could be a lot worse.
How many people do you know that by 40, end up with some unattractive hell hound of a wife and a few kids who they might love but have to pay through the nose for, both financially, and in terms of living their lives to the supposed fullest?
Or have kids by multiple partners, are divorced/living separately, struggling to make ends meet?
Or worse.
I guess the only answer is to try to focus on the positives. Life goes on. It's tough.
Funnily enough I'd not posted on here for a while myself, after having mixed success dating wise over the last few months, and wondering now if there's something I really need to be doing. But I found myself happiest earlier in the year when I just didn't care about pickup for a while, and was doing what I wanted to do - I went hiking with some friends, and met some girls on the hike who went with us who were fantastic people, it was an amazing experience and just goes to show what they say's true, do what you love doing and you meet similar people. It didn't work out quite on the romantic front but it taught me something about myself.
But I do like coming back here and seeing how things are working out around for other dudes. Good to see you're still around man
