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Soo needy - CAN IT BE SAVED (Superb fuck up)
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Author:  lance69 [ Thu Sep 26, 2013 6:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Soo needy - CAN IT BE SAVED (Superb fuck up)

Met this chick on tinder, number closed all going lovely, set up late drinks on Friday the same week she flaked and went on holiday the following week.. shes still wants to meet.. reopened after a while with:

Me:Just saw a naked man chasing a dog, standard friday night in tooting

Her: wow, I forgot you live so close, if u wana get dinner sunday leme no

Me: Tried to snapchat.. would have been a beautiful sigh.. You cooking???

Got no reply...

So next day on sat midday said

Me: you being an angel this weekend?

her: bit hungover.

we chatted for a bit but the dinner set up never came up and happened..

so sunday evening

Me: i think its time you took a trip over to clapham for this drink

she : lol u think so?

me i know so hah

Her ha, you have to formally invite me

Me: what are you up to tonight? Im feeling spontaneous?

Her: watching x factor and then bed at 9, tonight is not a spontaneous night

Me: haha yea true

was working till 3 last night and have an assessment day tmo aha

me: ah that sucks well hope that goes well

her: it wont i'm like bleugh. such a waste of time

me: ok well Wednesday, clapham at 8, me you and some cocktails. tha formal enough for you hah

Her: i'm at uni on weds

me : see your the diffcult one lol

her:my next available date will be october 11th

me: thats a long time

her: lol i'm very busy, got weddings, work jay z concerts

me ooo miss popuar

her: its all kicking off

me ok 11th it is then , but you owe me one for making me wait. treat them mean, keep them keen, its worrking haha

her: looool ok



That was yesterday, on sunday night... didnt reply .. was sure what to do.... maybe give it time... flakey flakey...

Where did I go wrong... CAN IT BE SAVED... ( haven't text her in 4 days)

Just a bit I should add, we talk on whats app all the time but have never chatted on the phone... is there anyway to save this???

Author:  TheFury [ Thu Sep 26, 2013 6:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Soo needy - CAN IT BE SAVED (Superb fuck up)

Probably not. You talk way too much per actual in life meeting.. I'm afraid you most likely in the "penpal zone" or textzone or whatever you want to call it. Stop talking to her for a while and then just stick to logistics instead of chatting about random bullshit all the time with someone you have never even seen in real life.

Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Fri Sep 27, 2013 1:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Soo needy - CAN IT BE SAVED (Superb fuck up)

I really don't see any attraction or spark going on in these texts... I don't like the over-use of "HA" after every line either... it's not needed! Just talk to other ppl and work on your game some more. A confident funny guy doesn't have to verify every line is funny to the woman... keep the lines short and sweet. Plus it looks like you're going by her rules... she sayss "oct 11" and you jump right on that date like you have nothing better to do than be her doormat whenever she needs u. Take control!

Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Sat Sep 28, 2013 3:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Soo needy - CAN IT BE SAVED (Superb fuck up)

Quote:
I really don't see any attraction or spark going on in these texts... I don't like the over-use of "HA" after every line either... it's not needed! Just talk to other ppl and work on your game some more. A confident funny guy doesn't have to verify every line is funny to the woman... keep the lines short and sweet. Plus it looks like you're going by her rules... she sayss "oct 11" and you jump right on that date like you have nothing better to do than be her doormat whenever she needs u. Take control!
for what its worth I'm just gonna say I totally agree with this.

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