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| Author: | FlexBrah [ Tue Sep 24, 2013 4:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Does oneitis go away when you... |
Fuck your oneitis? I have heard people say that it does. And speaking from experience... I had terrible oneitis with this girl that the furthest I've gone was a hug in my hs class senior year. Few years later... we make out and date for a few weeks... I tried f closing but she didn't want to. However, I can definitely say my oneitis is FAR LESS DRAMATIC now that I've made out with her, instead of just getting hugs from her. I just felt like I got my balls back when I made my move... I'm pretty sure I already know the answer... which is yes, it does go away if you can smash her. The problem with oneitis is that it usually happens with chicks you can't smash. & recently that has become a problem for me and I MUST fix it. Of course we all know the game other chicks method. Which you should definitely do. However, nobody really talks about this approach to curing oneitis. IMO: Game other chicks + Go after your oneitis > Game other chicks + Avoid your oneitis. Discuss. . . |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Tue Sep 24, 2013 10:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does oneitis go away when you... |
can't really say... oneitis has always defeated me. I've only had sex with women I didn't stress over too much. The best thing you can do for yourself is date more girls so oneitis doesn't defeat you on the one girl. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Tue Sep 24, 2013 10:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does oneitis go away when you... |
Btw I look at a previous girl I had oneitus for and I laugh at myself and ask myself "really?.... why?" usually she's not even worth it. I'm with a woman now that's 100x better than the chick before her that had oneitus. It's a sick disease that's not even reality |
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| Author: | Pikeman85 [ Tue Sep 24, 2013 1:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does oneitis go away when you... |
Yep, I wouldn't even touch any of my old oneitises now. I can do so much better. One oneitis (that I had fucked, but been total beta about and lost) tried to get me back after me and my latest relationship ended. Nope, no way. |
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| Author: | Xoved [ Tue Sep 24, 2013 2:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does oneitis go away when you... |
I'm stuck in a situation like this, and I can tell you it can be cured. Today morning I felt that she was acting all weird and trying to ignore me. With one move, which was a little bit of ignorance and talking to other girls, she came back. This is because all it's all bullshit, if you know how to treat the girl right, there's no such things as this disease, it's a lie. I want her, and I'm not going to date other chicks, but the only way to cure it is to make her know that you have other options and that you can back away from her anytime. Let her feel that it's risky to play games with you because she can lose you anytime. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Tue Sep 24, 2013 2:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does oneitis go away when you... |
In general, yes, or at least the feeling fades. The feeling fades with almost any girl, a one-itis is no exception. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Sep 24, 2013 4:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does oneitis go away when you... |
Oneites sucks. Had one a short time ago, gaming other women wasn't really helping, fuck it didn't even slow me down much. I had no original goal to fuck this girl, although she was amazingly hot. I was just to busy. So I friend zoned HER. Suddenly I found myself obsessed. I pulled out all stops, and was able to succeed. I have never been similarly so disappointed! What a lousy lay! And shortly there after she became a 'door knob'. More-so she always was and I was too short sighted to see it. She 'faded away' as Fury says. But the insight I learned during this venture is invaluable. |
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