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| Author: | Moscow [ Sun Sep 22, 2013 5:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help! I feel like a chode once again. Depressed. |
I started college about a month ago, the first two weeks or so, I was feeling like a king, I was confident, I was spending a lot of time with girls. I hooked up with one. After that, I had a rush of confidence, but then, I have been slowly regressing back to a chode state, to where I am now. I don't feel confident anymore. I don't carry myself in a masculine manner as much as I once did. I'm not taking any initiative. I don't know what's going on, I'm honestly becoming depressed, I feel almost like I felt 2 years ago, before I knew of any sort of self-actualization; like everything about me is just null. I went out last night with my friends, and a few girls, I came home even more bummed out, what I thought would be amazing and great fun ended up being just average. Ever since I started using game, I've been pretty happy, but my happiness was being derived from female attention. I haven't fucked, or even kissed a girl in 3weeks. I'm at a low, I'm scared of taking initiative with girls once again, to the point where I won't even say what I want to say sometimes. My body language has even changed slightly, I used to have very strong alpha body language, but now it's dying down. I don't know what's going on, I've been wishing I had a girlfriend for awhile now, I've never had one. PUA and Game made me believe that girlfriends are not needed, that they are worthless, but at this point I have realized it's what I've been kind of craving. What to do? Any advice? |
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| Author: | AmazingArt [ Mon Sep 23, 2013 1:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help! I feel like a chode once again. Depressed. |
Right now you're looking for validation. If you're looking for validation once you get it you feel empty afterwards. This is exactly what's happening now. Ask yourself question, why are you doing game? Be clear about what you want in the long term. |
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