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| Author: | FlexBrah [ Sat Sep 21, 2013 11:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What to do when guy hits on your gf in front of you? |
For example... watch the first one... [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4klFj5N6S0k[/youtube] This is an area I'm still confused in? Should you alpha up and try to scare the dude away... if that doesn't work give him a beating? Or just laugh it off... IDK. The last thing you want is to seem beta in front of your girl, and I have no idea what reaction would come off as beta and what would come off as alpha... Thanks in advance! |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Sun Sep 22, 2013 12:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when guy hits on your gf in front of you? |
1. Guy hits on your gf 2. Your gf says "sorry I have a bf" 3. If the guy backs down, cool, laugh it off 4. If the guy persists, you do what you regularly do when someone disrespects you. So if someone disrespected you and you were alone, what would you do? Are you a fighter? Then get confrontational. If you aren't and you back down when someone disrespects you then back down in front of you gf too. Point is, don't try to be something you're not. If you're usually a puss, don't start getting confrontational and get beat down because you won't be accustomed to getting confrontational. Take your gf away from the situation or something |
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| Author: | Il-Cavalieri [ Sun Sep 22, 2013 8:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when guy hits on your gf in front of you? |
Depends on the situation. There are several ways to show alpha behaviour, and not all have to do with girls. Download a few police techniques or military manuals, there are several to pick readily available in PDF. The parts about PSYOPS, riot control techniques or establishing dominance over a suspect are very useful in this kind of situation as they teach you how to shape your body language and speach to appear intimidating. |
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| Author: | Chemicals [ Sun Sep 22, 2013 8:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when guy hits on your gf in front of you? |
If the guy just does it once he is probably joking around, laugh it off - he means no disrespect. If the guy persists beyond what you are comfortable with the situation needs to be escalated. Immediately alert this guy to the fact that he crossed your line, and that he is in serious physical danger. I try to remind people that blatantly disrespect me that they have friends and family, long with other people who care about them. I make it clear that its never a good idea to do things that makes them risk losing the important things they have in life. |
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| Author: | SF__Giants88 [ Sun Sep 22, 2013 10:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when guy hits on your gf in front of you? |
I'd inform him that she's my girlfriend in a peaceful and nice way. If he persists and he doesn't listen don't be surprised to see me punch him in the face |
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| Author: | Semimembranosus [ Sun Sep 22, 2013 11:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when guy hits on your gf in front of you? |
haha, this isn’t a forum for people who have long term relationship. this forum is for pua’s. |
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| Author: | hugge [ Sun Sep 22, 2013 12:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when guy hits on your gf in front of you? |
Here is what I would do. If you have been together with your gf for a long time and you trust her, the guy should be no actual threat whatsoever and you can stay cool. Stay cool in any case. I would have introduced myself to him and pretended that I enjoyed his company. Chat with him for a while. Then, you have to choose where to take the situation: 1. If he seems nice and you like him as a friend, then why not become his friend? 2. If he is just an annoying obstacle, slowly start to lock him out by talking to your gf. After a while, if he doesn't leave on his own, say "please excuse us..." and walk somewhere else. If he is stubborn you will have to be more aggressive. Never be aggressive from the start, since it indicates that you live in scarcity, which is quite unattractive in front of you gf. If you really really know your girl, you can as well let him do his best. When you get tired, you can just ask her "shall we go home?" and she will follow you. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Sun Sep 22, 2013 1:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when guy hits on your gf in front of you? |
Laugh it off and tell him he wouldn't know what to do with her. |
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| Author: | Il-Cavalieri [ Sun Sep 22, 2013 3:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when guy hits on your gf in front of you? |
Quote: If the guy just does it once he is probably joking around, laugh it off - he means no disrespect.
On the same note, here are a few lines that would make Tony Soprano proud:If the guy persists beyond what you are comfortable with the situation needs to be escalated. Immediately alert this guy to the fact that he crossed your line, and that he is in serious physical danger. I try to remind people that blatantly disrespect me that they have friends and family, long with other people who care about them. I make it clear that its never a good idea to do things that makes them risk losing the important things they have in life. "Careful, boy, you are about to get more than you bargained for." "You're not the first guy to say that to my girl. If memory serves me right, the last one woke up to the sound of his own screams as his flesh burned on a misterious house fire." "That's cute. Hey, honey, remember the last guy who said that to you? I heard he's out of the ICU and can almost eat solid food again." "Do that again and you, your family, your friends, your whole fucking hometown, will end up on the bottom of the river" or "I believe it's time for you to leave. Or do you want to stay and meet my friends Mr. Smith and Mr. Wesson?" |
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