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| Author: | Ohm-Mega [ Thu Sep 19, 2013 3:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | >NEED TO GET PUMPED!!!< |
Alright guys, so I just broke up with my first girlfriend. And even though I feel bad about it, I'm glad It's over and relieved. I can now start a new journey. So theres this party at my college called "Dress to get Laid" where people dress really slutty and yes, it's a party where the title implies, people hook up. I'm not really sure how to approach this but I really wanna bring someone back to finally get rid of my v card. How should I approach this besides like, opener/neg etc. What I'm asking is, what do most people do before they go out to have a good time? Like for pre gaming purposes, motivation etc.? Please let me know guys! Thanks a bunch! |
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| Author: | Droogo [ Thu Sep 19, 2013 7:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: >NEED TO GET PUMPED!!!< |
It depends on who you are. I personally have a sort of ritual where I put on some music, take a shower and dress up to my best. There's not a magical formula to pump you up, it can be anything. |
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| Author: | Soy Un Pony Dork [ Thu Sep 19, 2013 1:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: >NEED TO GET PUMPED!!!< |
I'm trying to figure that out myself. I'm an extrovert, and I face an entirely different problem that most other people face. I'm great with a group, but going out alone is difficult. I went out yesterday, and I'm not exactly sure what I was thinking. I had just worked out. I felt like crap. The interactions where I just came in indirect were okay, but the ones where I was more direct were rubbish. I think what gets me pumped are a few things: silly voices, singing, ridiculousness - especially if it's dirty minded. So I think when I go out alone I'm going to start talking to people in a really ridiculous way. I don't think I'll ever f the warm up, but w/e. |
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| Author: | Ohm-Mega [ Thu Sep 19, 2013 7:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: >NEED TO GET PUMPED!!!< |
That's really interesting. Yes I know it's a very individual thing. I can pre game with friends but alone is difficult. But I think I'll hang out with my buddies before anyway. I have compiled a playlist of songs that get me feeling really confident.  I'm liking the working out, music/ silly ridiculous singing idea. What about like watching something like the speech from Rocky? Or Pepe Le Pew? Haha just playing around with options, motivational shit. Any other ideas, guys? |
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| Author: | Pickwick [ Fri Sep 20, 2013 4:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: >NEED TO GET PUMPED!!!< |
You're not getting ready for a football game. You're going to be interacting with people. If you're going to tell yourself that you need to do something special in order to be socially adequate, that is exactly what is going to happen. Whether I am going out by myself, meeting people anywhere before going out, or am at my place with friends, I groom myself like I do everyday, dress depending on situation, and just go. If you need a social lubricant, take three shots and don't drive. Adrenaline itself won't do much for you the whole night. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Fri Sep 20, 2013 5:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: >NEED TO GET PUMPED!!!< |
Quote: Alright guys, so I just broke up with my first girlfriend.
And even though I feel bad about it, I'm glad It's over and relieved. I can now start a new journey. So theres this party at my college called "Dress to get Laid" where people dress really slutty and yes, it's a party where the title implies, people hook up. I'm not really sure how to approach this but I really wanna bring someone back to finally get rid of my v card. How should I approach this besides like, opener/neg etc. What I'm asking is, what do most people do before they go out to have a good time? Like for pre gaming purposes, motivation etc.? Please let me know guys! Thanks a bunch! Why do you need to get yourself in the mood to have fun? LOL Like pickwick said, you aren't getting ready for a football game. What more "pumping up" do you need? You should be excited and pumped up already. |
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