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| Author: | poopguy88 [ Tue Sep 17, 2013 4:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to meet girls in college? |
I know this probably sounds crazy since it should be really easy to make friends with girls in college when were all freshman and looking to meet new people. But I've been here 2 weeks and havent made any friends that are girls. So where is the best place to meet them and actually get a relationship out of it? In classes? parties? just walking down the street and talking to them? There was this one time where I talked to a girl in the laundry room about how to work the machine... is that a good place to ask for her number? I feel like I should have but I blew it... anyways please help. |
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| Author: | Athylus [ Wed Sep 18, 2013 5:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to meet girls in college? |
Hey! I've started university since 2 weeks ago as well, I have talked to 2 girls but haven't really made friends. You should just chat one up, doesn't matter where. Cafeteria, outside or whatever. My trouble is that usually I'm inside and the girls are doing homework in the cafeteria... don't want to disturb them. Would that be okay to do? |
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| Author: | Pickwick [ Wed Sep 18, 2013 6:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to meet girls in college? |
I'm writing this out assuming you have AA and are shy. If you do not have AA, there are better ways to meet girls in college. It's ordered in a sequential pattern and gives just a bit of what you can do, since I don't have much time. 1. Get a group of friends with whom you can go out. You will automatically start finding new contacts, and meeting girls through other people. This will lead you to go to parties and your network will grow. To do this, kick it with your hall mates, or anyone with whom you keep in touch with. 2. Talk to girls in class. There are a few guides and rules you can find on this forum regarding what to do in class, but just like you should be able to run any situational openers, you can use the class to your advantage. Sit next to a random girl and just say hi. Ask her how she's doing and how her weekend was. If you have difficulty doing this, ask her to explain something to you. If you go to a small school and you know something about the girl, perhaps she's in a club, run her through the Hey, are you so and so. I heard you're in so and so, how do you like it? I was thinking of joining. This is some of the most basic stuff, and there are better ways to open girls if you're flowing with confidence. If that's not the case, this would be a good way to build up to that level. You will eventually do group work as well, so you will be forced to talk to girls. Another thing you can do is ask a girl next to you if she's getting any of this stuff. Your job is to open- even if you're absolutely socially inapt, you will be able to run more situational things, as well as giving her the green light to talk to you during other time. Another thing about classroom- it is easier than people think to talk to a girl outside of class before, or after class. Since you just started, you can ask anyone how they like the class so far. Once again, you can just come up to someone and start doing small talk. 3. Join clubs. If you've already had a club fair, or whatever your college does, I hope you signed up for a bunch of clubs. What guys in college don't realize, is that the first day of every club meeting is a day to meet. You all say your names and some interesting shit about you. After that, you have a lucid way and a clear reason to open- you share a similar interest. This should eat at whatever AA you have. If you've missed whatever club sign ups, find out the clubs your student body has and contact their representatives. They will hit you up with the next meeting time. 4. When you're getting food, easy to do situational openers. If you're confident and witty, it's not hard to do. If you're not, don't dichotomize from your persona. You might think what you're about to say is clever, but it might be the exact opposite. I never meant to meet random girls in cafeterias, but I've met a few just from saying random shit. If a girl is picking out all the pineapples in the fruit salad line, if she's going for the cookies, or in general if she's doing something out of ordinary, you can throw a quick remark. Just don't tell her she's getting a bunch of food because she's fat. If you're in line and a girl is in front or behind you by herself, just say "Hey, what's your name?" It will work 100% of the time. It's a bit late to be doing the "random cafeteria approach since we don't know each other", but if you recognize someone, go sit with them. I rarely ate at the dining hall since I always lived off-campus, but once you get rid of your AA and get more social freedom, you shouldn't have much problems going up to a table of random girls and opening them. Besides this, once you've had your group of friends and club homies, sit with them. They will always invite their friends from other places, and you will automatically be able to meet them. |
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