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| Author: | Trilex [ Sat Sep 14, 2013 12:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Ways to react to different responses |
So I'm quite new to this but learning fast, today I waked up to a 2 set with one target, I got to there table after fumbling around with my friend, came in with a im having fun vibe, sat down said hi to the girl across from me the first thing she said was we don't even know you, I then said now you do sat for like 3 seconds more she was on fb with her phone looking at pics) I got up walked away, I think she tried to call me back up I just ignored her, sat down with my friend and when back to having fun i was thinking she wold try to come over but this was like my 3rd approach since I started last week, the point is I'm not that great at quick responses but I'm killer with eye contact, ( didn't really make eye contact to much after I started approach, possibly why) I would just like to know what are some things I should try to do, I'm going with the direct method, so I just need to work on passing shit test, any suggestion any links, all would be great. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Sat Sep 14, 2013 1:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ways to react to different responses |
dont get into that habit of memorizing 99 responses to xxx. With shit tests you just need to operate under the correct frame, then whatever answer that comes to you will work. Focus on the frame not the minutia. You are doing great, just approach more, and be as direct as possible. |
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| Author: | Trilex [ Sat Sep 14, 2013 2:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ways to react to different responses |
Quote: dont get into that habit of memorizing 99 responses to xxx. With shit tests you just need to operate under the correct frame, then whatever answer that comes to you will work. Focus on the frame not the minutia. What would you recommend trying to focus on first in regards to my frame? What were some tactics and methods you used to create your own frame when you first started?
You are doing great, just approach more, and be as direct as possible. |
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| Author: | Texas Hammer [ Sun Sep 15, 2013 4:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ways to react to different responses |
Silence can be just as good as speaking, try maintaining your killer eye contact, keep it silent for a second, then speak, better to think and speak instead of blabber out a canned response, it will seem fake and not have nearly as much effect as if you keep your cool think of something to say appropriately, even if it was just you saying so? With the right tone a voice and a pause I think it could have gone a long way. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Sun Sep 15, 2013 6:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ways to react to different responses |
Quote: What would you recommend trying to focus on first in regards to my frame? What were some tactics and methods you used to create your own frame when you first started?
you have to be attractive to woman by being the high value one in the interaction, I can speak ad naseum on priazability, pedestals, cocky funny, DHV, HVM, and all the various PUA stuff related to the same basic concept. Rather than wax prolix on my own spin about this I would recommend getting hold of some good inner-game material and practice implementing the correct mindset and framethe point is you trying to solve an inner game issue with outer-game techniques. This is the wrong order of operation as you need to develop the inner game mentality then use techniques(outter game) as needed as best practices to be the most effective. |
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