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| Author: | Hunter9 [ Wed Sep 11, 2013 2:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | I'm finally in a pretty good situation and I STILL SUCK! |
Hey guys, so basically I'm in a pretty good situation and I still suck. I have 3 girls who are attracted to me. [i]And 2 who I THINK may be interested in me and who I like but I am friends with them and have been for a while (one for about 2 years (Claire [mentioned later]), the other about 6-7 months) but this post isn't about the 2 possibles; but I'll give a link to another post which is about them when I write it.[/i] But basically with the 3 who are pretty much definitely interested in me I am still clueless about what to do with. 1 is Claire's friend who is good looking and I think wants a relationship with me. 2 is an old friend who asked Claire if I was single and we don't talk often so I think she wants to be fuck buddies (possibly). 3 Is a good-friend's sister's friend who has told me she thinks I'm good looking and we have recently started texting and I don't have a clue what her intentions are. Now, I'm not an attractive guy who often has lots of girls after him and I'm still pretty much a virgin and I've never had a one night stand before and don't think I've got the balls to just have sex with these girls without being in a relationship with them and I think I'd feel like a bad person for doing it (if I could). I also wouldn't know how to go about it, I'm not confident enough to just tell them I want sex and feel I'd mess up. What should I do and how should I do it? P.S. I'm going to UK University in less than 2 weeks and none of them are going to the same University |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Sep 11, 2013 2:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm finally in a pretty good situation and I STILL SUCK! |
Dude.. there is nothing that anyone can do for you to make you feel "confident" in just two weeks. All I can tell you is to visualize yourself telling them over and over. And then just do it.. You're about to go away man..What to do care? If they don't like it.. so what? you're going to a uni that is full of women. Just do it bro |
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| Author: | Hunter9 [ Fri Sep 13, 2013 9:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm finally in a pretty good situation and I STILL SUCK! |
Thanks man 3 is saying she wants to give me a blowjob and have sex :S. I want a blowjob and sex but I'm a bit scared to be honest. What if I don't perform or she doesn't like the look of me naked? HEELP! |
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| Author: | Spark Plug [ Fri Sep 13, 2013 10:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm finally in a pretty good situation and I STILL SUCK! |
Bro really? Jesus Christ man, it literally couldn't be easier for you. Here's what you need to do: 1. Grow a pair 2. Go over to her place 3. Get naked 4. Lay back and let the magic happen I get that you're self conscious about getting naked around another girl etc etc. But here's the two options you have right now: 1. Man up and go over to her place and get laid 2. Stay "pretty much" a virgin forever This is crunch time man. It's time for you to stop being a boy and start being a man. Me and the guys are rooting for you bro. Happy Hunting. Spark Plug |
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| Author: | Hunter9 [ Fri Sep 13, 2013 10:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm finally in a pretty good situation and I STILL SUCK! |
Yea you're right mate. I am self conscious as I'm pretty overweight and feel like I wont be able to perform well and word will get out and my social sex life will be shredded before it even begins. I know I have to take advantage of this GOLDEN opportunity than many other guys would kill to be in but I don't know how to take advantage of it haha. What do I do? walk straight into her room, strip and do some American Pie styled "SUCK ME BEAUTIFUL!" ??? haha cheers for the great reply dude |
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| Author: | Spark Plug [ Fri Sep 13, 2013 10:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm finally in a pretty good situation and I STILL SUCK! |
Ok in 2 weeks you're going to head off to a University that none of them are going to. University is a clean slate, all the embarrassing, stupid shit you did in high school may as well have never happened. It's your chance to start over. So worst case scenario is she'll be unsatisfied it'll be awkward between you for 2 weeks but then you'll never see her again. From now on everytime you get worried or nervous just imagine what it'll be like when you fuck the shit out of her. As far as organising it actually goes just invite her to hang out sometime and make your move. It's not like it's gonna be too hard just be confident and relaxed. You can do this man, Spark Plug |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Fri Sep 13, 2013 10:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm finally in a pretty good situation and I STILL SUCK! |
Quote: Thanks man 3 is saying she wants to give me a blowjob and have sex :S. I want a blowjob and sex but I'm a bit scared to be honest. What if I don't perform or she doesn't like the look of me naked?
Girls really don't care about how you look naked... They care about how horny you make them and having a throbbing hard dick. Meet up with her and close the damn deal. Shit... quit playing around.
HEELP! |
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| Author: | havegunwilltravel [ Fri Sep 13, 2013 11:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm finally in a pretty good situation and I STILL SUCK! |
Just look at it as a great learning experience with all three. You could either go to college much more experience and confident or you could go feeling pretty much like you do now but only worse since you would have went 0-3 right before you starting uni. You and the girls all know that if you leaving in 2 weeks a relationship is out of the question. Don't feel bad because they all pretty much know this is true. If they want to have fun and you want to as well and you get experience to boot, I don't see a problem. |
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| Author: | Hunter9 [ Sat Sep 14, 2013 12:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm finally in a pretty good situation and I STILL SUCK! |
Hey thanks guys. What yous are all saying is making sense. What should I do when I go to her house though? What's a good way for it to go from knocking on her door to having sex? |
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| Author: | AFCToTheMax [ Sat Sep 14, 2013 8:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm finally in a pretty good situation and I STILL SUCK! |
Honestly why don't you just tell the girls that you are a virgin so you let them teach you. They will love it trust me. |
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| Author: | havegunwilltravel [ Sat Sep 14, 2013 12:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm finally in a pretty good situation and I STILL SUCK! |
I'm a full decade older than you so I'm just going to add I have never regretted anything I have tried or attempted to try, but I do have some regrets about things I didn't do. As far as getting her in the mood when she is back at your place just esculate by running kino, kissing etc. and the rest will happen so long as your willing to try. |
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| Author: | Hunter9 [ Tue Sep 17, 2013 11:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm finally in a pretty good situation and I STILL SUCK! |
Hey guys. What youse are saying makes sense and thanks for the great advice. I just get nervous whenever I think about it and I think of problems and ways out I it and I can't stop Thanks again guys |
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