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Author:  eric12 [ Tue Sep 10, 2013 2:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Reading the sign

A old topic may explain my situation: how-to-know-if-a-flirting-girl-is-into- ... 76-15.html

The girl I have a crush on her and me became really closer recently, we were never sitting alone or texting before just few days, and now SOMETIMES it looks like she really try to be around me, or giving me her attention.

The real twist began few days ago, I was sitting in a park with some friends and my dog(in the neighborhood), and it became late and my friend had to leave, I was like "oh... you need to go? Damn I need to stay with my dog here for a bit longer until he gets tired". FOR THE FIRST TIME, she immidiately offered that she will stay with me, and later she even invited me to come to her house and we were sitting in her garden UNTIL 3 AM.
I was afraid that I'm staying too long and she feel like I need to go but after we were playing with my dog a bit she told me to come back to the car that inside her garden(where we were sitting before), and it felt like really good conversation so I just... couldn't go.
Just where I saw that it really late, 3 AM, I told her that I really need to go becuase I need to wake up in an hour(which was true), she were like... "Ohh yea hurry up you have to go, so you won't tell me tommarow that you couldn't wake up just because of me", like happy that Im leaving.
I didn't knew if I stayed there for too long until she was really happy that Im leaving, or she was just... "ok you really have to go, it's late for you".
I would really appriciate understanding it.

In addition, she is really flirting girl, my friend touch and hug her freely, nug and compliments a lot...
I'm not that kind of guy, every friend of me sees me as the mature(is it the right word?) in the group, Im from a religious familly, I'm not used to touch girls like that with most of my friends that not from my neigherborhood(cuz only in there I have good friends that not religious).
Because of that I think she feels that Im close toward her, even if recently we began to be more closer, we still don't have that touching and nugging like she has with other friends.
Anyways, she compliments me ALOT, she does try to let me touch her(at list that what I feel from her), but I just... dont feel comfortable with it, even if I really want to. I can't even accept compliments as I need to compliment back, it's hard to me to create that tension(not cuz non-confidence, I feel confident to have long eye-contect with her for example, she is almost always that one that break it).

I would really appriciate some help.

Author:  TheFury [ Tue Sep 10, 2013 2:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reading the sign

Quote:
A old topic may explain my situation: how-to-know-if-a-flirting-girl-is-into- ... 76-15.html

The girl I have a crush on her and me became really closer recently, we were never sitting alone or texting before just few days, and now SOMETIMES it looks like she really try to be around me, or giving me her attention.

The real twist began few days ago, I was sitting in a park with some friends and my dog(in the neighborhood), and it became late and my friend had to leave, I was like "oh... you need to go? Damn I need to stay with my dog here for a bit longer until he gets tired". FOR THE FIRST TIME, she immidiately offered that she will stay with me, and later she even invited me to come to her house and we were sitting in her garden UNTIL 3 AM.
I was afraid that I'm staying too long and she feel like I need to go but after we were playing with my dog a bit she told me to come back to the car that inside her garden(where we were sitting before), and it felt like really good conversation so I just... couldn't go.
Just where I saw that it really late, 3 AM, I told her that I really need to go becuase I need to wake up in an hour(which was true), she were like... "Ohh yea hurry up you have to go, so you won't tell me tommarow that you couldn't wake up just because of me", like happy that Im leaving.
I didn't knew if I stayed there for too long until she was really happy that Im leaving, or she was just... "ok you really have to go, it's late for you".
I would really appriciate understanding it.

In addition, she is really flirting girl, my friend touch and hug her freely, nug and compliments a lot...
I'm not that kind of guy, every friend of me sees me as the mature(is it the right word?) in the group, Im from a religious familly, I'm not used to touch girls like that with most of my friends that not from my neigherborhood(cuz only in there I have good friends that not religious).
Because of that I think she feels that Im close toward her, even if recently we began to be more closer, we still don't have that touching and nugging like she has with other friends.
Anyways, she compliments me ALOT, she does try to let me touch her(at list that what I feel from her), but I just... dont feel comfortable with it, even if I really want to. I can't even accept compliments as I need to compliment back, it's hard to me to create that tension(not cuz non-confidence, I feel confident to have long eye-contect with her for example, she is almost always that one that break it).

I would really appriciate some help.
Ok, so you were in her house alone until 3am and you didn't make a move? If you don't feel comfortable touching her etc. then you will not get her, ever. You need to get comfortable with that or give up on getting women. I hate to sound so harsh but it is the truth. You need to build comfort making eye contact, touching her, and going for kisses etc. Without this the process of getting women is futile.

Author:  eric12 [ Tue Sep 10, 2013 8:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reading the sign

It's not like I don't know it, when I left her house I felt as such an idiot, I knew that I need to do a move, but the whole situation look strange to me.
Me and her sitting in the car(the front sits, I guess it could be easier behind cuz there the sits are together, in the front sits we were'nt even in touching range), talking about life, then I just start to touch her, if she's right with that I kiss?
It's hard, especially if I don't really know if she is intersted.

Thanks on the reply man.

Author:  TheFury [ Tue Sep 10, 2013 9:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reading the sign

Quote:
It's not like I don't know it, when I left her house I felt as such an idiot, I knew that I need to do a move, but the whole situation look strange to me.
Me and her sitting in the car(the front sits, I guess it could be easier behind cuz there the sits are together, in the front sits we were'nt even in touching range), talking about life, then I just start to touch her, if she's right with that I kiss?
It's hard, especially if I don't really know if she is intersted.

Thanks on the reply man.
Touch her and then if she is receptive go for a kiss. The worst thing that can happen is an awkward moment that you will forget about in 10 minutes. Most likely, she will be receptive!

Author:  eric12 [ Tue Sep 10, 2013 10:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reading the sign

It could be easier with any other girl, but as I said she don't care that anyone touch her, it won't say nothing that she will receptive to the touching.

Anyway, I guess that I should just try to make another chance like I had and just... do it.

Do you have some tips for finding out what the girl thinks about you?
And last thing that I try to understand from her behavior, when she's greeting me, she has an high pitch like "Heyyyy Ericccc!!!!", she does greeting anyone kindly, with word like "honey", but not the same like me.
Does it mean something? I'm afraid that it means she sees me only as a friend.

Author:  TheFury [ Wed Sep 11, 2013 3:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Reading the sign

Quote:
It could be easier with any other girl, but as I said she don't care that anyone touch her, it won't say nothing that she will receptive to the touching.

Anyway, I guess that I should just try to make another chance like I had and just... do it.

Do you have some tips for finding out what the girl thinks about you?
And last thing that I try to understand from her behavior, when she's greeting me, she has an high pitch like "Heyyyy Ericccc!!!!", she does greeting anyone kindly, with word like "honey", but not the same like me.
Does it mean something? I'm afraid that it means she sees me only as a friend.
You won't know the answers until you try to make a move or at least make your intentions clear. You know what you need to do: don't be afraid to fail and just go for it.

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