PUA Forum :: Letting someone use my apartment

I've known about PUA for a few years but haven't had any success or made any consistent effort. I have everything needed but I'm quite shy.

Anyways I met this dude on facebook who is pretty good at game, especially day game. We went out for an hour downtown to try and approach girls. His advice was sound...he told me when I was being too tense, that I was thinking too much, and explained his thoughts on how the brain works. Anyways definitely a really smart dude.

Only thing is, afterwards he asked me when I worked, and I said 9-5 weekdays. Then he said "let's make a deal" and said in exchange for helping me improve, to let him bring girls to my apartment while I'm at work.

Of course my gut instinct was like "whoa, no way, sounds kinda shady" but on the other hand I'm 27 and at this point I'd do ridiculous things like this to improve my chances.

Would anyone go for this deal?

Author:	MMMMOnkey [ Sun Sep 08, 2013 3:47 pm ]
Post subject:	Letting someone use my apartment
I've known about PUA for a few years but haven't had any success or made any consistent effort. I have everything needed but I'm quite shy. Anyways I met this dude on facebook who is pretty good at game, especially day game. We went out for an hour downtown to try and approach girls. His advice was sound...he told me when I was being too tense, that I was thinking too much, and explained his thoughts on how the brain works. Anyways definitely a really smart dude. Only thing is, afterwards he asked me when I worked, and I said 9-5 weekdays. Then he said "let's make a deal" and said in exchange for helping me improve, to let him bring girls to my apartment while I'm at work. Of course my gut instinct was like "whoa, no way, sounds kinda shady" but on the other hand I'm 27 and at this point I'd do ridiculous things like this to improve my chances. Would anyone go for this deal?

Author:	Dragula [ Sun Sep 08, 2013 3:58 pm ]
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Yeh seems a bit shady, you will probably end up falling out of him in the future. However, good wings are rare, if you get laid yourself from just hanging out with him. Then it is a no brainer. Depends how getting laid is important to you.

Author:	TheFury [ Sun Sep 08, 2013 4:44 pm ]
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That is shady. Get to know him better first, also in an outside of coaching/PUA context before considering such an arrangement. At least that is my view.

Author:	Dolc3 [ Sun Sep 08, 2013 7:13 pm ]
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Quote: I've known about PUA for a few years but haven't had any success or made any consistent effort. I have everything needed but I'm quite shy. Anyways I met this dude on facebook who is pretty good at game, especially day game. We went out for an hour downtown to try and approach girls. His advice was sound...he told me when I was being too tense, that I was thinking too much, and explained his thoughts on how the brain works. Anyways definitely a really smart dude. Only thing is, afterwards he asked me when I worked, and I said 9-5 weekdays. Then he said "let's make a deal" and said in exchange for helping me improve, to let him bring girls to my apartment while I'm at work. Of course my gut instinct was like "whoa, no way, sounds kinda shady" but on the other hand I'm 27 and at this point I'd do ridiculous things like this to improve my chances. Would anyone go for this deal? I had a similar situation few years ago. In the end of the day YOU have to decide it. I, personally, wouldn't do it. This guy is way too closed off if he demands to use your appartment in exchange of his help. I would help out guys that are motivated for free, not to fuck in his appartment.

Author:	fishnwomen [ Sun Sep 08, 2013 7:40 pm ]
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I'd get to know him better first, but as mentioned, good wings are rare.

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Author:	neo87 [ Mon Sep 09, 2013 2:15 am ]
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Guy sounds rude to even suggest that so soon. Hang out with him more and if he becomes an actual FRIEND then fine. You gotta know someone's maturity and responsibility level before letting them use your stuff, especially your home. You don't know if he could leave your door open as he's walking some girl home, leave your place unlocked or forget the stove on because he's banging.

Author:	iLoveTurtles [ Mon Sep 09, 2013 2:22 am ]
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Dude this is what's going to happen. You leave for work/school whatever, he comes with a couple chick and a camera guy and start fucking all over your place. Then he's going to sell the porno and it goes online. Your lonely landlord is going to go "My God, that's the place I'm renting out!" and call you. You are going to sound confused at first until you watch it yourself and realize what your "mentor" was doing. Then you get evicted and become homeless.

Author:	Gabriel Angelo [ Thu Sep 12, 2013 12:05 am ]
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The end justify the mean. Ask yourself is it worth it? If I had a situation like this and we're friends, I would just give him access to my place but lock my room...like you're in a frat house when a party is going on and you locked the door from having folks entering your room.

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