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Also I terms of where to go from here I was initially going to read the "Mystery Method" book. However I've now realized that I don't want to completely change who I am just for pick-up. I will enjoy enhancements to myself like better style and better social and attraction skills but I will want to still be the same person at heart and not lose my current morals.
So now I'm thinking it would probably be better for me to learn natural game without canned routines.
Ah, yes. Morality. So now I'm thinking it would probably be better for me to learn natural game without canned routines.
As a seducer, you'll be more successful if you have your value system intact. You just need to define what are those. You'll also need to distinguish between a moral value versus certain judgments with deep rooted psychological dysfunctions that affect how you interact with mainstream society. For instance, the Madonna/Whore complex is a common psychological issue rather than a moral value which affects a lot of newbies in this forum.
An extreme example of a Madonna/Whore complex psychological dysfunction is that of Ed Gein (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ed_Gein) whose mom betatized his alcoholic dad and infused in her children's minds that she was the one and only pure 'Madonna' and all other women were 'whores'.
Another judgment that doesn't sit very well with many PUAs is on inflicting emotional and physical violence on women although it's generally understood that slapping a girl's face with your cock is okay as well as some hair pulling while you're fucking her doggie style, choking her just a little bit as you climax, or gagging her with your cock while she's giving you a blowjob.
Some great values in this PUA community include:
- 1. Loyalty. We are all very loyal to our fellow womanizing brothers. Bros first before hoes as one poster banners proudly in his signature.
2. Commitment. We are committed to world peace and seduction. If everybody around the world is fucking instead of fighting, then we would have achieved our goal.
3. Decency. Generally, we stay clear of social taboos like racism, pedophilia, coprophilia and other unlawful or disgusting sexual practices.
4. Teamwork. The Chief is our prime evangelist that women are essential members of the team called the human race. Most of us agree with this.
5. Respect for Women. Ironic, but true. Most of us here love women. We would rather treat them as human beings rather than as sex objects. Women are great, not just for sex, but also for sharing some of the best things in life like good conversations, good food, clean clothes, and spick and span apartments.
As for canned routines, look at conversations both from the verbal and nonverbal aspects. Most nonverbal communication that we do are canned rather than natural. Most men suck both at reading body language and conveying subtle messages through body language. Thus, canning these nonverbal cues facilitates an easy way to learn them and get them ingrained in our system.
Defining and simplifying these nonverbal signs as applied to seduction are some of the great things you'll learn in pickup that you can also apply in your career or day to day life.
When you become good at this, hopefully, you'll help some broken hearted noob or give hope to some hopeless guy sometime in the future when most forum regulars get bored with this stuff and move on to address some other aspects of their lives.
