PUA Forum :: What to do after an N-close?

Hey,

I'm still a newbie to all this but I've been absorbing all the knowledge I can get and have been going through the missions in "Rules of the game".

Anyway I just had a question. I have yet to actually try sarging as I don't have enough knowledge yet.

However I'm wondering what do you do after you get a n-close. For example you get her number and then you leave. How do you proceed in the next few days?

Thanks

don't just leave after you get a number. one of the biggest mistakes i have made. If she is in a hurry that's one thing, but getting a number and leaving makes the girl feel like you were there just for the number and nothing else.

Get the number, stick around a little bit and chat, hit it off, make contact (should have started with contact in the beginning) if the conversation starts getting anywhere close to stale or even better when it is still exciting tell her you're meeting friends or something and leave, give her a hug (or kiss) and walk away.

This way you'll have initiated attraction and not just gone for digits. Wait an our or a couple of hours and text her saying something that tells her you remember the awesome conversation you had, then hang out with her in the next couple days.

Quote:

Hellhound said:

"Also prepare a verbal and nonverbal routine to number close for a day 2 in case you don't see any nonverbal cues for the kiss close. When your killer instincts are not yet sharp, you'll need these verbal and nonverbal routines until everything becomes automatic when you see the trigger nonverbal cues for each specific reaction."

As for the verbal routines to get a number close, I believe I have experience on that field and that I do so almost automatically. This is something I`ve already managed before, but you got me at nonverbal routines.

Are you referring to the act of handing over my phone the a girl in order for her to put her number on it? Can you give me some examples so I can understand it a bit more?

This will be your first nonverbal routine. Practice it many times in front of the mirror and infield until it becomes reflexive; you don't have to think about it.

To understand why you have to learn this nonverbal routine, jump to the post: 'Why the Eyefuck Routine Works' and see the science behind it, here: how-to-make-a-woman-fall-in-love-with-y ... 89-15.html

To practice how to do it, jump to the post with an image of an eye, here: how-to-make-a-woman-fall-in-love-with-y ... 89-60.html

The gist goes this way. You catch a girl looking at you for more than 5 seconds. You mirror the way she looks at you long enough until she pulls her gaze down and brings it up again. You close the distance by around 2 feet. Say your short opener, then start eyefucking her. You can leverage the interaction with humor to spike up the attraction some more (if you want to learn the science behind this and look at the study, click here and go to Timo's post: post789691.html#p789691) or you can choose to remain silent and simply eyefuck her. Next, get her number.

If she is a masculine female type, you can say something like, "Can I have your number so we can have fun together some time?"

If she is a feminine female type, you can say something like, "Let's exchange numbers so we can have fun some time."

"Let's..." is a masculine set of words while "Can I..." is a feminine set of words. The first one is action oriented while the second one is permission oriented.

So when should you number close? When you're both eyefucking each other for more than 10 seconds, go for the number close. To increase your odds of a successful number close, you can always inject humor so the girl knows that you're a fun person that's worthwhile of her time and won't bore her during a date.

Author:	MasterOfMystery [ Thu Sep 05, 2013 12:56 am ]
Post subject:	What to do after an N-close?
Hey, I'm still a newbie to all this but I've been absorbing all the knowledge I can get and have been going through the missions in "Rules of the game". Anyway I just had a question. I have yet to actually try sarging as I don't have enough knowledge yet. However I'm wondering what do you do after you get a n-close. For example you get her number and then you leave. How do you proceed in the next few days? Thanks

Author:	Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Sep 05, 2013 1:11 am ]
Post subject:	Re: What to do after an N-close?
Quote: Hey, I'm still a newbie to all this but I've been absorbing all the knowledge I can get and have been going through the missions in "Rules of the game". Anyway I just had a question. I have yet to actually try sarging as I don't have enough knowledge yet. However I'm wondering what do you do after you get a n-close. For example you get her number and then you leave. How do you proceed in the next few days? Thanks Don't do what most forum posters here do. They make a few posts, lurk a lot, read tons of PUA material for one or two years and NEVER SARGE. I would advice reading 10 posts a day in this forum, posting 3 to 5 posts and then sarging outside in girl rich environments approaching at least 10 new girls a day. ACTION will help fast track your learning. The moment you move your hands (writing posts) in trying to learn how to seduce women, moving your feet (sarging outside) is a lot more easier. Do the newbie mission before you even ask about questions like these.

Author:	MasterOfMystery [ Thu Sep 05, 2013 1:15 am ]
Post subject:	Re: What to do after an N-close?
Thanks:) I have in fact done a slight vacation on the newbie mission by walking around my neighbourhood for at least an hour and saying hi to everyone I see. Also as I said I've been following the "Rules of the game" missions which requires similar action. So I definitely will continue to progress:) Thanks again

Author:	MasterOfMystery [ Thu Sep 05, 2013 1:17 am ]
Post subject:	Re: What to do after an N-close?
Variation* lol

Author:	Jay (Majik) [ Thu Sep 05, 2013 4:11 am ]
Post subject:	Re: What to do after an N-close?
Quote: Hey, I'm still a newbie to all this but I've been absorbing all the knowledge I can get and have been going through the missions in "Rules of the game". Anyway I just had a question. I have yet to actually try sarging as I don't have enough knowledge yet. However I'm wondering what do you do after you get a n-close. For example you get her number and then you leave. How do you proceed in the next few days? Thanks Are you trying to get a bunch of girls phone numbers or are you trying to get pussy?

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Author:	cubcadet12 [ Thu Sep 05, 2013 2:23 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: What to do after an N-close?
don't just leave after you get a number. one of the biggest mistakes i have made. If she is in a hurry that's one thing, but getting a number and leaving makes the girl feel like you were there just for the number and nothing else. Get the number, stick around a little bit and chat, hit it off, make contact (should have started with contact in the beginning) if the conversation starts getting anywhere close to stale or even better when it is still exciting tell her you're meeting friends or something and leave, give her a hug (or kiss) and walk away. This way you'll have initiated attraction and not just gone for digits. Wait an our or a couple of hours and text her saying something that tells her you remember the awesome conversation you had, then hang out with her in the next couple days.

Author:	Malcolm Thomas [ Thu Sep 05, 2013 4:44 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: What to do after an N-close?
Quote: Hey, I'm still a newbie to all this but I've been absorbing all the knowledge I can get and have been going through the missions in "Rules of the game". Anyway I just had a question. I have yet to actually try sarging as I don't have enough knowledge yet. However I'm wondering what do you do after you get a n-close. For example you get her number and then you leave. How do you proceed in the next few days? Thanks After you get a woman's phone number you begin texting her and making plans to meet up with her again sometime in the near future.

Author:	MasterOfMystery [ Thu Sep 05, 2013 9:10 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: What to do after an N-close?
Quote: don't just leave after you get a number. one of the biggest mistakes i have made. If she is in a hurry that's one thing, but getting a number and leaving makes the girl feel like you were there just for the number and nothing else. Get the number, stick around a little bit and chat, hit it off, make contact (should have started with contact in the beginning) if the conversation starts getting anywhere close to stale or even better when it is still exciting tell her you're meeting friends or something and leave, give her a hug (or kiss) and walk away. This way you'll have initiated attraction and not just gone for digits. Wait an our or a couple of hours and text her saying something that tells her you remember the awesome conversation you had, then hang out with her in the next couple days. Thanks:) also just to be clear I never said I would leave immediately after getting a number. That seems kinda counter intuitive haha. Thanks again

Author:	Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri Sep 06, 2013 12:08 am ]
Post subject:	Re: What to do after an N-close?
Here are the nonverbal components of face-to-face number closes that cut down your flake rate dramatically for Day2s. If you want to get pussy instead of just numbers, this is how you do it. Quote: Quote: Hellhound said: "Also prepare a verbal and nonverbal routine to number close for a day 2 in case you don't see any nonverbal cues for the kiss close. When your killer instincts are not yet sharp, you'll need these verbal and nonverbal routines until everything becomes automatic when you see the trigger nonverbal cues for each specific reaction." As for the verbal routines to get a number close, I believe I have experience on that field and that I do so almost automatically. This is something I`ve already managed before, but you got me at nonverbal routines. Are you referring to the act of handing over my phone the a girl in order for her to put her number on it? Can you give me some examples so I can understand it a bit more? This will be your first nonverbal routine. Practice it many times in front of the mirror and infield until it becomes reflexive; you don't have to think about it. To understand why you have to learn this nonverbal routine, jump to the post: 'Why the Eyefuck Routine Works' and see the science behind it, here: how-to-make-a-woman-fall-in-love-with-y ... 89-15.html To practice how to do it, jump to the post with an image of an eye, here: how-to-make-a-woman-fall-in-love-with-y ... 89-60.html The gist goes this way. You catch a girl looking at you for more than 5 seconds. You mirror the way she looks at you long enough until she pulls her gaze down and brings it up again. You close the distance by around 2 feet. Say your short opener, then start eyefucking her. You can leverage the interaction with humor to spike up the attraction some more (if you want to learn the science behind this and look at the study, click here and go to Timo's post: post789691.html#p789691) or you can choose to remain silent and simply eyefuck her. Next, get her number. If she is a masculine female type, you can say something like, "Can I have your number so we can have fun together some time?" If she is a feminine female type, you can say something like, "Let's exchange numbers so we can have fun some time." "Let's..." is a masculine set of words while "Can I..." is a feminine set of words. The first one is action oriented while the second one is permission oriented. So when should you number close? When you're both eyefucking each other for more than 10 seconds, go for the number close. To increase your odds of a successful number close, you can always inject humor so the girl knows that you're a fun person that's worthwhile of her time and won't bore her during a date.

Author:	MasterOfMystery [ Fri Sep 06, 2013 1:24 am ]
Post subject:	Re: What to do after an N-close?
Wow that was really good! Thanks hellhound:)

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