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Author:  iLoveTurtles [ Wed Sep 04, 2013 6:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Any Asians sucessful with online dating?
I go to sites like pof or okcupid but I hardly ever get any replies back. Wondering if it's the race card, would want to see any successful Asains' profile so I can see how I can improve.

I mainly try to talk to non-asians. So it doesn't count if you only go for Asians.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Sep 04, 2013 10:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Any Asians sucessful with online dating?
You posted this in the wrong section...


But why don't you NOT use online dating? You are giving the girl a choice of whether or not she is attracted to you by only allowing her to see a few pictures and a stupid profile. Get out there and start TALKING to girls instead.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Sep 05, 2013 1:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Any Asians sucessful with online dating?
I'm not that active anymore with online sarges but I used to be active with online dating before I got into PUA. The first meet ups were always single day lays or single night lays. The downside is that the quality of girls is not that great compared with face-to-face sarging. Hint: Girls online tend to be fatties or uglies with photos heavily retouched with Photoshop.

One strategy I use is to set up fake profiles like the attachment. Any girl with a hot picture who views my profile gets a message. When I get a reply, I chat up a little and send my picture. When a girl likes my looks, I go heavy with my sexual innuendos and set up a date.

Checkout vicparkguy. He's awesome with online sarges.

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Author:  TheFury [ Fri Sep 06, 2013 4:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Any Asians sucessful with online dating?
Online dating is good. Yes, a lot of Asians can and are successful on it with non-Asians. I have some friends who are. No, girls online are not all ugly, and no they do not all heavily retouch with photoshop (lol, most girls, I mean, PEOPLE, don't use or even have photohsop). There are some ugs, and some girls who lie or put misleading pictures, but probably no more so than the men do. Either way, you can be successful online even if you are asian and want non-asian girls, I have a few friends who are exactly in this boat and they do fine.
Author:  WorldIsntFair [ Fri Sep 06, 2013 4:46 pm ]
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Author:  GKS [ Sat Sep 07, 2013 4:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Any Asians sucessful with online dating?
I'm Asian, about 8 on the look scale, 5'8" and balding. I still pulled 8s and 9s online and in day/night game. The keys are being confident (use your race as your advantage) and don't being too obsessed with the outcome or things you can't control (in this case, race reference). Some women just won't date Asians ever - you cannot change that - move on - focus your energy on those that are curious in asian culture or open minded or undecided.
Author:  WorldIsntFair [ Sat Sep 07, 2013 2:16 pm ]
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I'm Asian, about 8 on the look scale, 5'8" and balding. I still pulled 8s and 9s online and in day/night game. The keys are being confident (use your race as your advantage) and don't being too obsessed with the outcome or things you can't control (in this case, race reference). Some women just won't date Asians ever - you cannot change that - move on - focus your energy on those that are curious in asian culture or open minded or undecided.
Strong delusions.
Author:  iLoveTurtles [ Sun Sep 08, 2013 12:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Any Asians sucessful with online dating?
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I'm Asian, about 8 on the look scale, 5'8" and balding. I still pulled 8s and 9s online and in day/night game. The keys are being confident (use your race as your advantage) and don't being too obsessed with the outcome or things you can't control (in this case, race reference). Some women just won't date Asians ever - you cannot change that - move on - focus your energy on those that are curious in asian culture or open minded or undecided.

Can you give me a run through of what goes on in your mind when you first contact them? Should I compliment at all? A lot of times I would say something like "hey cutie, what's your name/something in reference to their profile and then end with what do you like to do for fun?"

So far I hit up around 40-50 girls and gotten like 5 replies back
Author:  GKS [ Sun Sep 08, 2013 3:01 am ]
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Can you give me a run through of what goes on in your mind when you first contact them? Should I compliment at all? A lot of times I would say something like "hey cutie, what's your name/something in reference to their profile and then end with what do you like to do for fun?"

So far I hit up around 40-50 girls and gotten like 5 replies back
Mindset? If I have to describe it with words, it'd be "I'm screening to see if she is fun and open minded enough to my liking". You can also read my posts on my signature. But generally, my first message usually contains some tease about something on their profile and qualifying with my sense of humor (this is when I have time or find the girl very interesting), other than that, I usually just send out the same message to about 100 girls every Monday.

Compliment? Not at all, they receive tons of that everyday. If I have to, I'd compliment on one of their quality, personality wise, not physical. The thing is these women get swarmed with dozens boring, ass-kissing, pervert, playing too safe messages, to the point that they've become jaded (especially when it comes to POF, they don't show your message, just your picture before they open your mail, so pictures play an important role on this site). So your goal is to engage their emotions whether it's negative or positive. The stronger the emotion you can create, the better your chance will be. You can always shape and lead the conversation later on after she replies if your frame and inner game are strong enough.

Here are the few that I've used before and got decent results out of it:

- Hey you look extremely familiar. Did we sleep together?
- Strange, you look just like this bully that I went to kindergarten with. Is your name [insert a random name]?
- I want you in every possible position
- Hypothetically, [insert some bizarre scenario] (my favorite, one time I asked a girl what would she do if she hit it off with a guy and come home with him, clothes are flying then she realizes both of his legs are prosthetic. This is a good opener since you can always gauge the girl's reaction to certain details of the story)
- Phew, my bad for the delay. I've been busy fighting dragons on the way here. Are you the rumored captured princess? (I used this for any girl that mention that they're romantic in their profile)
etc.....

Another thing to keep in mind is that Asian males are usually not associated with alpha male images in Western culture, so a lot of times they will throw shit tests at you to test your frame. Be ready to put them back to their places.

LD:DR - Be light and playful - Don't send too safe or formal 2 paragraphs messages - Be personal about the message (read their profile and have a quick cold reading on their personality) - Number close after a few exchanges (3-4 replies)
Author:  TheFury [ Sun Sep 08, 2013 3:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Any Asians sucessful with online dating?
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I'm Asian, about 8 on the look scale, 5'8" and balding. I still pulled 8s and 9s online and in day/night game. The keys are being confident (use your race as your advantage) and don't being too obsessed with the outcome or things you can't control (in this case, race reference). Some women just won't date Asians ever - you cannot change that - move on - focus your energy on those that are curious in asian culture or open minded or undecided.

Can you give me a run through of what goes on in your mind when you first contact them? Should I compliment at all? A lot of times I would say something like "hey cutie, what's your name/something in reference to their profile and then end with what do you like to do for fun?"

So far I hit up around 40-50 girls and gotten like 5 replies back
like GKS said ... think about something to write based on their profile. One size doesn't fit all.
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