Really like a girl iv known for about a year, we went out alot as friends and there was some flirting but i did not see her in that way, as time passed i started too really like her and told her, she did not feel the same and i told her we can't be friends and have not spoke in over 3 months. She sent me a long happy birthday text two days after my birthday and now i am confused.

I cannot be friends with this girl because i love her. There was a time where i am 100% sure she had some sort of feelings towards me and a lot of drunken sexual flirting while out, and she would get jealous when i talk to other girls and would step in and pretend i was her boyfriend.

I replied to the text with a thank you, she replied "pleasure" to which i have ignored (i don't know how i should continue with this girl) I am very good with girls and have no problem with confidence or talking to girls, this is the first girl i have falling for and can't get her out of my head.

Well, right now she does not appear to be interested, but she wants to be friends, wich may (or may not) give you a chance on the long run. If I was in your place, I would be cool with that. Cash, friends and ammo, you can always have more. By being friends you get close to her, and may be able to spark her interest, you may get to know some hot friends she may have, and you can introduce her to a hot babe you are dating and make her jealous. If it works out, you get a girlfriend, if it does not, you get a friend, wich is always a good thing to have. The question is: can you forget you obsession with her and play it cool? It's all in your head, man. Now think it over.