Hey guys,

Just wanted to share my recent experience from the pickup I witenssed in one of the sea-side resorts I went to. In particular, the "aggresiveness" of the nature of the males when confronting girls. But let's start with the general picture.

The resort itself is not world-wide renowned (not like Ibiza or anyhing of this sort), but attracts quite a big crowd during the season. At certain discos (not clubs, discos) there were at least 200 people on a reasonably small dance floor every night amd almost the same of of by-standers and cocktail drinkers around it. So a fair crowd i would say. The crowd itself - many of the girls there were part of hen nights, most under 20/22, pretty much everyone there usually comed tipsy already.

The usual routine of the aggresive PUAs I witnessed was as follows: start dancing around, see a girl that you like, approach her and keep dancing closer and closer to her. At this point, most of the girls would dance back (common courtesy I guess?) and then the guys would get even closer, grab the girls and after maybe 5-10 mins they would touch their asses, or even grope them. Now the reactions of the girls amazes me - some of them would give them gentle signs not to do so, but then abandon that idea and allow them to continue, some would do nothing, but smile, the others would even let the guys kiss them... I would never be able to do that, as I would be sure i would get slapped in the face, so I would proceed very cautiously.

I wanted to ask you, the pros, whether this aggressive strategy should be adopted? Does it work only on specific i.e. stupid/drunken girls? Any comments/observations/past experience on this matter would be highly appreciated.

Hey guys,

Just wanted to share my recent experience from the pickup I witenssed in one of the sea-side resorts I went to. In particular, the "aggresiveness" of the nature of the males when confronting girls. But let's start with the general picture.

The resort itself is not world-wide renowned (not like Ibiza or anyhing of this sort), but attracts quite a big crowd during the season. At certain discos (not clubs, discos) there were at least 200 people on a reasonably small dance floor every night amd almost the same of of by-standers and cocktail drinkers around it. So a fair crowd i would say. The crowd itself - many of the girls there were part of hen nights, most under 20/22, pretty much everyone there usually comed tipsy already.

The usual routine of the aggresive PUAs I witnessed was as follows: start dancing around, see a girl that you like, approach her and keep dancing closer and closer to her. At this point, most of the girls would dance back (common courtesy I guess?) and then the guys would get even closer, grab the girls and after maybe 5-10 mins they would touch their asses, or even grope them. Now the reactions of the girls amazes me - some of them would give them gentle signs not to do so, but then abandon that idea and allow them to continue, some would do nothing, but smile, the others would even let the guys kiss them... I would never be able to do that, as I would be sure i would get slapped in the face, so I would proceed very cautiously.

I wanted to ask you, the pros, whether this aggressive strategy should be adopted? Does it work only on specific i.e. stupid/drunken girls? Any comments/observations/past experience on this matter would be highly appreciated.

aggressive is a word that should never be used when talking about pick up. dominant yes, sexual yes but not aggressive. I think many guys get confused when this word is used and kino girls like they are doing UFC. Remember the women always chooses, just be awesome and she will choose you!

Follow my general strategy, it works no matter what is the scenario, first open, then compliance, then arousal, then close... Look at my video on my youtube channel(opening) and then the one on micro escalation and arousal... Make sure you read my breakdowns in the captions...