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| Author: | matador of fun [ Sun Sep 01, 2013 9:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | she is giving me I.O.I but wants to be friends |
this girl is a HB 7..initializes all texts and wants to hang out...but despite the I.O.I she is giving,she says she just wants to be friends...how should i deal with her? |
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| Author: | odyn [ Sun Sep 01, 2013 10:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: she is giving me I.O.I but wants to be friends |
How does she want to hang out? If she is willing to hang out at your place, I think its way more than her wanting to be friends. If she wants to hang out in a group then don't pay her any more attention then you pay the others. Make sure when you hang out with group you are confortable with everyone there. Let her see you as the a confident cool guy and go from there. |
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| Author: | Pickwick [ Mon Sep 02, 2013 12:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: she is giving me I.O.I but wants to be friends |
Always go off of what a girl does instead of what she says. |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Mon Sep 02, 2013 1:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: she is giving me I.O.I but wants to be friends |
A text is not necessarily an IOI, especially if she's said she wants to be friends. Have you actually tried any seduction on her, kino etc.? What prompted her to say "LJBF"? |
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| Author: | ChitownMaverick [ Mon Sep 02, 2013 6:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: she is giving me I.O.I but wants to be friends |
She's tooling you; making you into an orbiter. NEXT immediately. Stop taking her calls and responding to her texts. Drop that shit like it's the poison it is. |
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| Author: | AndreasJacobsen [ Mon Sep 02, 2013 7:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: she is giving me I.O.I but wants to be friends |
I think you need some closure... This girl may be in to you, but she may not! As I understand it from this thread, you have not, at this point, went "all in"; that is, making an overt physical move to show her what it is that you want from her (a sexual relationship). If you do this and you escalate, and she is into you, then great! You just hooked up with a girl. If not, at least you have done everything you could but in the end, you weren't good for each other and now you have closure... Ready to move on to other beautiful women! - Andreas |
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| Author: | matador of fun [ Mon Sep 02, 2013 11:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: she is giving me I.O.I but wants to be friends |
she accusses me of being a player..is really flirty nd wants to hang out at my place...but says she just wants to be friends....i have a gut feeling she is attracted but i am horrible at building comfort...maybe that is why.. |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Tue Sep 03, 2013 2:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: she is giving me I.O.I but wants to be friends |
Her calling you a player is an IOI. Escalate physically, eye contact, kino etc. If she doesn't roll with it, get rid of her. You said yourself she is a 7, try fucking her. Then go get a 9 and stop over thinking everything. This girl is expendable and easily replaceable. |
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