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| Author: | matador of fun [ Sat Aug 31, 2013 8:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | weak frame |
i have asked this question some time back..as a kid i had self esteem issues because i was never loved and got abused..i believed i deserved that SPAM because i was a horrible person..pick up has given me value..made me understand that it was not my mistake that i got treated that way...i can safely say i am better off in terms of how i feel about myself now than before i got introduced to pick up..but still some of my insecurities resurface..how can i get rid of at times my weak frame and live in my own reality nd be outcome independent? |
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| Author: | Don Horneone [ Sat Aug 31, 2013 9:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: weak frame |
Developing your own reality won't come overnight. Don't pay attention to those "1 weird trick" banners on the site. Finding yourself and who you are with women will take years, not months, and there will be pain involved. |
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| Author: | matador of fun [ Sat Aug 31, 2013 10:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: weak frame |
Quote: Developing your own reality won't come overnight. Don't pay attention to those "1 weird trick" banners on the site. Finding yourself and who you are with women will take years, not months, and there will be pain involved. what should i do to find who i am then?
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| Author: | Don Horneone [ Sat Aug 31, 2013 11:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: weak frame |
Quote: Quote: Developing your own reality won't come overnight. Don't pay attention to those "1 weird trick" banners on the site. Finding yourself and who you are with women will take years, not months, and there will be pain involved. what should i do to find who i am then?This might help: http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-tru ... er-person/ If you're not ready to be that utilitarian about life yet, then I'd suggest counselling. I did it for a long time. It's important to be listened to, especially if you've been abused. And finally, you're asking me, who ultimately doesn't know. Finding YOU is something that only you can do, as it's a unique exploration. But if you have creative outlets like music or writing or photography or anything like that then throw yourself into them. Those things are very good. I'd say the most important thing is to believe in yourself and to believe that you DESERVE to influence the world around you. A lot of times the shots are called by people with no special qualifications who just BELIEVE that they deserve to call the shots. Why should they have all the fun? Why should the outcomes be determined by them? Why not you? |
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| Author: | Pickwick [ Sun Sep 01, 2013 5:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: weak frame |
So many ellipses. Watch Amy Cuddy's Ted Talk on confidence. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks-_Mh1QhMc I've met Amy through a paper I wrote on impression management and done research on similar concepts she talks about in the video. It works and it's the best way to change your frame. If you have any questions, and decide to leave off senseless rhetoric on how you've had a tough childhood, feel free to hit me up on PMs. |
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