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| Author: | Moyo [ Sat Aug 31, 2013 11:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Being Flaked if you appointed someone. What to do? |
Hey, I am just wondering what should you do if you actually appointed a meeting with a girl, suddenly she says "I am busy! I cannot meet you after all today, because of xx reason". How should you actually respond to that without saying "oki, just call me back when you have time! I am happy if we can meet together again  " I don't want to feel needy, or mr nice guy, but I want a kinda straight forward solution something like alpha male-ish. Any suggestion? |
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Aug 31, 2013 2:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being Flaked if you appointed someone. What to do? |
Ignore and go no contact until she initiates the contact again. But to reduce your flake rate substantially, you'll have to project a very sexual vibe on Day1. Check your facial and body features though as well as your body language. If you're very masculine enough, a strong sexual vibe will usually work. However, if you're still learning how to be masculine enough and in the stage of boosting up your testosterone through HIIT exercises and healthy food, a very strong social vibe is what you need to reduce your flake rates. 
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Sat Aug 31, 2013 2:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being Flaked if you appointed someone. What to do? |
You're being needy. You've two options: 1. As above. 2. Message her back as if it's not a big deal. Don't even try to come out on top by having one up on her. Just treat it as if you really didn't care much to begin with. "That's cool. I'll get back to you sometime.  "After that either wait for her to contact you or wait two or three days and be c/f about meeting up again. |
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| Author: | Gradi0 [ Sat Aug 31, 2013 3:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being Flaked if you appointed someone. What to do? |
"You are a lifesaver - I completely forgot I already made plans with my friend too. There's no way I could've cancelled on her today." This almost always gets them jealous and has them respond back with, "who is she? want to hang out on [date]?" |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sat Aug 31, 2013 4:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being Flaked if you appointed someone. What to do? |
"No problemo, if you fancy that drink sometime, just shoot me a text and i'l see if i'm available. "THEN DO NOT TEXT HER. put ball in her court, if she texts you, you know she is interested, If she doesn't , you now know that she was a waste of time. WIN/WIN situation. |
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| Author: | Moyo [ Sat Aug 31, 2013 4:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being Flaked if you appointed someone. What to do? |
Thank you guys! Really appreciate your help! I actually noticed I ignored a girl for 2 weeks, since I didn't give any much more damn about her anymore, and she contacted and said "Hey! How are you doing?" We texted each other for a bit, but she took like 15-20 minutes to respond for each message. Her quality message was just few words, like "I'm, good! Just super busy". Seriously, is this a stupid game she is trying to do? Sometimes I don't understand why the hell the other person is contact you for. If you want attention, seek somewhere else... |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Sat Aug 31, 2013 4:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being Flaked if you appointed someone. What to do? |
Quote: Thank you guys! Really appreciate your help!
You need to stimulate the conversation and be fun. It's up to you to make it fun. She wants fun, she's obviously into you for some reason, maybe she thinks you're hot and nice but she wants initiative in a man. You need to show her you're that guy. I actually noticed I ignored a girl for 2 weeks, since I didn't give any much more damn about her anymore, and she contacted and said "Hey! How are you doing?" We texted each other for a bit, but she took like 15-20 minutes to respond for each message. Her quality message was just few words, like "I'm, good! Just super busy". Seriously, is this a stupid game she is trying to do? Sometimes I don't understand why the hell the other person is contact you for. If you want attention, seek somewhere else... Be fun, start talking about interesting topics and start pushing to meet up. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sat Aug 31, 2013 5:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being Flaked if you appointed someone. What to do? |
Quote: Thank you guys! Really appreciate your help!
I actually noticed I ignored a girl for 2 weeks, since I didn't give any much more damn about her anymore, and she contacted and said "Hey! How are you doing?" We texted each other for a bit, but she took like 15-20 minutes to respond for each message. Her quality message was just few words, like "I'm, good! Just super busy". Seriously, is this a stupid game she is trying to do? Sometimes I don't understand why the hell the other person is contact you for. If you want attention, seek somewhere else... This the part i would do the same to her. Just reply an hour or so later, be very brief, dont ask her any questions, only reply to her...you will be amazed how girls respond to this and start to chase you when you use girl tactics against them Because it communicates to them, "this guy who used to be so into me like all the other guys is busy with other girls since he isn't overly excited to hear from me, hmmm i'm curious, time to send him a text" |
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| Author: | Moyo [ Sat Aug 31, 2013 6:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being Flaked if you appointed someone. What to do? |
Sounds fantastic advice! I will try it out, but seriously... such girls makes me sick. If it's up to me to make conversation fun... I actually don't feel people deserve such attention, unless I just want to screw her. |
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