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Author:  matador of fun [ Wed Aug 28, 2013 11:11 pm ]
Post subject:  texting vs calling which is more effective.
personally i have noticed if i call a girl i met online, i stand a better chance of meeting her than when i text after number closing her online...after a call the chances of a meet up skyrocket..if i keep texting i usually do not get anywhere..phone game is better for me than text game for me...who has different experiences ....share.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Aug 28, 2013 11:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: texting vs calling which is more effective.
Phone without a doubt.

It cuts through the non senses and allows you to connect with the girl almost as if you were with them in person. One solid phone call will have a girl chasing you for weeks.
Author:  GamesSN [ Wed Aug 28, 2013 11:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: texting vs calling which is more effective.
I don't play online game but it seems logical that calling a chick you met online is the thing to do.

If you met a girl during nightgame just text her. The only time you should call her is if you're calling her phone there and then when you n-close.

Daygame if you're contacting them for the first time, depending on how long it's been, call them. If it's only been a few hours and she's under the impression you've been busy just send a text.
Author:  matador of fun [ Wed Aug 28, 2013 11:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: texting vs calling which is more effective.
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I don't play online game but it seems logical that calling a chick you met online is the thing to do.

If you met a girl during nightgame just text her. The only time you should call her is if you're calling her phone there and then when you n-close.

Daygame if you're contacting them for the first time, depending on how long it's been, call them. If it's only been a few hours and she's under the impression you've been busy just send a text.
i live in a very conservative country..so i wont find many opportunities to game especially during the day..night game is better but i am yet to reach 21 so i cannot club unless i go out with older guys and bribe the bouncer and even the few times i went the music was so loud i could not even hear the person who was screaming into my ear..the person who got the intereast of the ladies that night in the club was a very wealthy guy with a golden chain and an expensive watch..so mostly i do 70% online game and 30% day game...so that is just a thing i noticed from online game..i remember i number closed one chick on facebook..she was like 7.5..we texted she asked to meet me..the lazyass i am i kept procrastinating..she got angry i called and she sounded very different over the phone...completely a different person..that is the trouble with texting more than anything else: it presents the person in a single dimension.
Author:  TheFury [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 12:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: texting vs calling which is more effective.
both have merits. I prefer to text and I do a lot of online game. Calling is more "upside" but a higher risk of screwing up.. when I have a girls number from online, I already know she is interested, I prefer to just play it safe, stick to logistics, and get a date. Then on the date is where I really work my game.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 1:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: texting vs calling which is more effective.
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both have merits. I prefer to text and I do a lot of online game. Calling is more "upside" but a higher risk of screwing up.. when I have a girls number from online, I already know she is interested, I prefer to just play it safe, stick to logistics, and get a date. Then on the date is where I really work my game.

With the phone call you don't have to spend money or time dates man - You can just invite em right on over :P
Author:  TheFury [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 12:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: texting vs calling which is more effective.
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both have merits. I prefer to text and I do a lot of online game. Calling is more "upside" but a higher risk of screwing up.. when I have a girls number from online, I already know she is interested, I prefer to just play it safe, stick to logistics, and get a date. Then on the date is where I really work my game.

With the phone call you don't have to spend money or time dates man - You can just invite em right on over :P
Yea that works w/text/email also .. but yes more likely with a call, it's why I said calling has more "upside". However, I close a high % on a first date anyway, so getting them over for a first date vs meeting for drinks or whatever doesn't make a huge difference for me. Also, there are still way more women I want that I can easily get on a date and then close that day vs get to come over to my place day 1 before meeting me, at least with my phone game.
Author:  Xoved [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 12:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: texting vs calling which is more effective.
Obviously calling gives you the upper hand.
Texting, anyone could do that. But speaking shows your real character and has more intensity.
I usually text because I usually know the girls I'm going out with, but I'd rather call if I don't know the girl that much.
Author:  TheFury [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 12:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: texting vs calling which is more effective.
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Obviously calling gives you the upper hand.
Texting, anyone could do that. But speaking shows your real character and has more intensity.
I usually text because I usually know the girls I'm going out with, but I'd rather call if I don't know the girl that much.
Sometimes all you need is to "not screw up" so standing out etc. adds little value. It really depends on the situation. I think both can work fine.
Author:  GKS [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 8:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: texting vs calling which is more effective.
Calling. Period. Unless you always stutter or have panic attack when you hear a girl's voice.
Author:  Xoved [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 8:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: texting vs calling which is more effective.
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Calling. Period. Unless you always stutter or have panic attack when you hear a girl's voice.
True, but what's the point of texting her and then when they meet face to face, he stutters.
I think best way is to call her and show her your real-self first.

That's just my opinion though
Author:  TheFury [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 8:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: texting vs calling which is more effective.
I have nothing against calling, but I think you guys are not appreciating some of the risks in calling. She may not like your voice over the phone, you may not hear well due to static or whatever and have an awkward conversation where you are repeating yourselves over and over, she may not "feel it" on the phone (literally a woman said this to me!) etc. text is very low risk. You won't build attraction, but the risk is minimal to zero. Bottom line, both can work, and both have their pluses and minuses.
Author:  Dragula [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 8:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: texting vs calling which is more effective.
I have a weak mumble voice like I'm sucking on dick.

Text for me.

Personally, I hate it when people call me without letting me know before hand. When I call people , I text "will call in a bit"

I seem to be always in the car/work/cinema or something when I get these calls and pisses me off.

I can imagine girls will get frustrated too when you call them at inconvenient times. At least with text, they can reply and read when they get a moment.

Some girls are plain shy, (especially in the UK) but still are meet-able with good text game.

From online game , a call would be better since its one step closer to meeting up.

Both have ups and downs IMO.
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