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Hi
so today I was at the store and met this girl. I talked to her, but was very nervous. I thought I was messing up really bad, my voice sounded so shaky.
at first we were talking in English but it turned out she was from my country so we started talking in our native language. I am jewish, and she is muslim. so I asked her "do you have a problem dating jews?" she said "no, I think you guys are more sensitive in that perspective, I dont care"
anyway, after a 5 minute conversation, I said "do you have a pen?" she knew exactly what I was referring to (phone number)
she got a pen out of her purse and said "what's your number?" I had a fedex envelope in my hand, I told her "write your number on this envelope" she kept refusing and said "you tell me your number I will write it in my notebook" after a long struggle, I finally got her to write a legit-looking number on the envelope.
Now my problem is, I dont know if it's a real number. How do I find out? do I text her?
And if it's a real number, I am not going to give her a chance, I mean what kind of a desperate slut would give her real number to a nervous loser like me?
Stop thinking so negatively about yourself bro! WHAT KIND OF GIRL WOULDN'T WANT TO GIVE HER NUMBER TO A SEXY BEAST LIKE YOURSELF?! Think of it that way... so today I was at the store and met this girl. I talked to her, but was very nervous. I thought I was messing up really bad, my voice sounded so shaky.
at first we were talking in English but it turned out she was from my country so we started talking in our native language. I am jewish, and she is muslim. so I asked her "do you have a problem dating jews?" she said "no, I think you guys are more sensitive in that perspective, I dont care"
anyway, after a 5 minute conversation, I said "do you have a pen?" she knew exactly what I was referring to (phone number)
she got a pen out of her purse and said "what's your number?" I had a fedex envelope in my hand, I told her "write your number on this envelope" she kept refusing and said "you tell me your number I will write it in my notebook" after a long struggle, I finally got her to write a legit-looking number on the envelope.
Now my problem is, I dont know if it's a real number. How do I find out? do I text her?
And if it's a real number, I am not going to give her a chance, I mean what kind of a desperate slut would give her real number to a nervous loser like me?
As far as when you should contact her... CALL her within a day or two. Don't text her. If you wait to long to do it... she might forget about who you are and ignore you. If you do it too soon, you come off as needy. By calling her, you will set yourself apart from the rest of the guys she is talking to (who are texting her) and she will be able to feel a connection with you again because she can hear your voice.
Good job tho man! Now go out and talk to more girls
