Probably simple and obvious to some of you, but while I've gotten a little better I'm still clueless. Anyway, had a couple different situations when I went out Saturday and was hoping I could get ideas on what I could have done better.
1) Sitting at a busy bar having a beer, cute girl wedges in next to me to order her drink. I say hi, she smiles for a second but someone taps me on the other shoulder and when I look back the cute girl is talking to the guy on the other side. Anything I could have done to get her attention back?
2) Sitting at a relatively empty bar waiting for a band to start. Band starts, I turn around and just lean back listening to the music... a woman on the dance floor beckons me out to dance with her so I shrug and nonchalantly walk out to dance with her. (Yay me for being opened!) So we dance and talk for a bit. It seemed like she was looking for long term, I just got out of a relationship and told her it was because we were looking for different things so I can see why she might have lost interest a little. Long story short(er), when the band takes a break she goes to the bathroom. When she comes back I talk to her a little more, then go to the bathroom myself... but when I come back she kind of seems to be ignoring me. I sit at the bar near her friends, the band starts back up, and she starts dancing alone basically with her back to me. So I figured she had lost interest, plus I was getting bored (I wasn't really that into her) so I just took off and went somewhere else.
The next day though I started thinking about it, and I'm wondering if she was just shit testing me somehow. Maybe I should have at least said goodbye and tried for the number close? Maybe start talking to another girl, but there were only 10 people there and 5 of them were her group...
So any tips would help.
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hard luck!! it happens tho bro 