one thing i have learnt from the community is that being a nice guy will take you nowhere..not even with men...so i experimented with being a complete asshole..i have noticed that attitude succeeds with average looking low self esteem girls, the ladies of fine qualities like the strong but good men but some puas still insist that being a bad boy is the only way..now i have a curious case, there is an HB 8 i met two years ago....she broke up with a big time player..he broke her heart they said.now this girl has shut off completely.she is no longer playing the field due to the heartbreak she suffered before.so how do you deal with such a girl? a girl who got burnt by a bad boy..do you still use the asshole approach since she is just a woman also or there is another way?

majority of the time... she will end up with another asshole. bad boy type. Why? cause she attracted to these types. Either she wise up and find that nice boy (usually later in life when they are ready to settle down and done playing the field) and marry him. May i ask how old is this girl?