Sex god method - Daniel Rose.

Actually, the answer is DEFINITELY no. Being good in bed is much more important for keeping a woman/relationship than for seducing a woman or even keeping a woman around for a few weeks for sex.

Sex God Method is a good staple in the PUA community on the topic of getting good in bed. Two additional great but newer programs are "2 Girls Teach Sex" and "Female Mind Mastery." You can check out my review for FMM in the Reviews board on this forum.
The answer is actually definitely yes because being great in bed gives you real sexual confidence that women can smell from a mile away. If you don't have real sexual confidence - the genuine kind that comes from actually being able to make women cum hard - you'll be seducing with a handicap.

Ok. Look. Obviously being good in bed is IMPORTANT and you SHOULD STRIVE to be good in bed. But the answer to the question of whether you HAVE to be good in bed (i.e. it is a REQUIREMENT) to get women is simply bullshit. Women are programmed to become attached after sex, EVEN when it is bad. I've had good sex, great sex, and bad sex, and the correlation between sex quality and the opportunity to see a woman again was ALMOST NONEXISTENT.

I hear your point about sexual confidence etc and I do agree with it to an extent but for the following reason: I think why men lack confidence is more because they THINK that if they don't deliver in bed they will lose out on the girl forever which makes them lack confidence and not go for it etc. And that is simply UNTRUE.

So, bottom line, is it good to be good in bed? Yes. Should you strive to be good in bed. Yes. Does it help? YES. But, is it a NECESSITY to succeed with women? For pick up purpose? No. For relationship and longer term issues, yes, it is quite important.

Just wondering, to keep a girl, do you need to be good in bed? will she cheat on you if you are not?
also, is there any guide to be good in bed?

thank you

Ok. Look. Obviously being good in bed is IMPORTANT and you SHOULD STRIVE to be good in bed. But the answer to the question of whether you HAVE to be good in bed (i.e. it is a REQUIREMENT) to get women is simply bullshit. Women are programmed to become attached after sex, EVEN when it is bad. I've had good sex, great sex, and bad sex, and the correlation between sex quality and the opportunity to see a woman again was ALMOST NONEXISTENT.

I hear your point about sexual confidence etc and I do agree with it to an extent but for the following reason: I think why men lack confidence is more because they THINK that if they don't deliver in bed they will lose out on the girl forever which makes them lack confidence and not go for it etc. And that is simply UNTRUE.

So, bottom line, is it good to be good in bed? Yes. Should you strive to be good in bed. Yes. Does it help? YES. But, is it a NECESSITY to succeed with women? For pick up purpose? No. For relationship and longer term issues, yes, it is quite important.

I am so insecure about this particular issue and I won't even believe the good signs I see with my girl lol. She keeps coming back for more, says the sex is always good and it NEVER gets boring with me like her past lovers...but she has a tough time finishing and only has a few times her whole life with a guy (a time or two with me). I've been upping my sex game by leaps and bounds recently with fingers and such and getting better results.

but as joey said: why the hell would she keep coming back for more and still be around me a year later if she was lying to me? she is friggin hot and guys hit on her all the time

special shout out to hellhound!