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Author:  Connorlol [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 4:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Okay guys im young and pissed please help
I'm not going to make this long and boring , just going to explain my background and get to the point.

i'm 19 almost 20 in less then a month, ive grown up in Texas my whole life and im southern. Not a cowboy but i do my share of hunting and fishing and wear my boots often .
I've played sports my whole life and had a wonderful family growing up. I am very blessed and have great physical features and im also pretty smart and attending college. I'm 6'4 215 pounds and workout a lot, black hair and blue eyes and many people say i look like liam hensworth or ben affleck, anyways im very good looking.

I have a problem though. in person i talk to women flawlessly and never get nervous and make them laugh and give me that i want you look and they always ask for my number.I'll go to country dance clubs and pick up girls numbers that are literaly 21-30 and stunning .. its retarded. I also will go for women 18+ usually women i want to date... ae 18-23. Anyway once im not around them in person, these women fucking ignore me like a ghost and rarely ever reply or dont at all. its driving me nuts, women play these games with me and i literally get angry. its okay if one or two did but almost 90% do this to me and its irritating the fucking hell out of me. im getting discouraged and pissed i almost want to tell them to go fuck themselves its so irritating.

what do i do? im lonely as fuck all the time because im always being played in these stupid women games because im good looking.
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 4:42 pm ]
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Its not because of your looks.

Need more info. Are you calling these women or texting them?

Remember the purpose of texting and calling is to meet in person again.

If you do so well in person, why don't you take women home the same night and fuck them?
Author:  TheFury [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 5:03 pm ]
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lol .. you are seriously in here whining about being too good looking? You not getting girls even if you are so good looking like you say means your game is TERRIBLE. Girls are not playing games with you because you are too good looking, that is fucking retarded. You are doing a lot really wrong for sure, but we can't really tell because we don't know what you are doing.
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 5:20 pm ]
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I'm not going to make this long and boring , just going to explain my background and get to the point.

i'm 19 almost 20 in less then a month, ive grown up in Texas my whole life and im southern. Not a cowboy but i do my share of hunting and fishing and wear my boots often .
I've played sports my whole life and had a wonderful family growing up. I am very blessed and have great physical features and im also pretty smart and attending college. I'm 6'4 215 pounds and workout a lot, black hair and blue eyes and many people say i look like liam hensworth or ben affleck, anyways im very good looking.

I have a problem though. in person i talk to women flawlessly and never get nervous and make them laugh and give me that i want you look and they always ask for my number.I'll go to country dance clubs and pick up girls numbers that are literaly 21-30 and stunning .. its retarded. I also will go for women 18+ usually women i want to date... ae 18-23. Anyway once im not around them in person, these women fucking ignore me like a ghost and rarely ever reply or dont at all. its driving me nuts, women play these games with me and i literally get angry. its okay if one or two did but almost 90% do this to me and its irritating the fucking hell out of me. im getting discouraged and pissed i almost want to tell them to go fuck themselves its so irritating.

what do i do? im lonely as fuck all the time because im always being played in these stupid women games because im good looking.

Really good looking guys don't have to focus on building attraction it's already there...

There are 3 basic ways to get laid: Attraction, Connection, and Sexualization (tension/escalation)

If you are a very attractive guy this can be intimidating for most women...

I'd look to build more of a connection and build stronger rapport... make her more comfortable as well...

Lots of women will get nervous around very good looking guys... however you need to set yourself apart from all the other pretty faces.... this means a connection... a connection makes things easy... This means creating more inside jokes... knowing more about them... listening more...

Here is an article I did on building a connection: http://scienceofnaturalgame.com/2012/05 ... e-contact/

If you need more just let me know... but I think that was what you were looking for... you need to learn to build stronger rapport... the number close... and avoiding flakes starts when you get her number...

Side question how's your text game? What do you text?

Peace and Love,

Vic
Author:  fishnwomen [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 5:31 pm ]
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If all of attraction were determined by looks, that would be a pretty shitty world to be in. The fact is, the things women are most attracted to are NOT looks at all. Looks are only a small part of the equation.

Body Language, Voice, Social Skills, Social Proof, etc. can definitely outweigh looks alone. It's a skill that you need to develop, and you should have a relatively fast learning curve if you are a good looking guy, because you will have more opportunities.

Approach 500 women, with a clear strategy in mind- and then come back to us. Figure out your sticking points, and work on one weakness at a time.
Author:  Connorlol [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 5:45 pm ]
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My games excellent in person to whoever said that idk but fuck you lol, its my txting game that pushes ghem away I guess.
Im not a good conversation starter over txt thats the truth, its getting the girl to hang out with me is ghe problem but once im with them I got them, but I need help on how to converse over phone im honestly shit out of luck when it comes to that.
Author:  TheFury [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 5:49 pm ]
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My games excellent in person to whoever said that idk but fuck you lol, its my txting game that pushes ghem away I guess.
Im not a good conversation starter over txt thats the truth, its getting the girl to hang out with me is ghe problem but once im with them I got them, but I need help on how to converse over phone im honestly shit out of luck when it comes to that.
If you aren't closing any of these girls, then your game sucks man. If you think your game is so great, and if it is, you don't need a conversation starter. You just ask them to meet up. "Hey, It's blahblah, we met out at this place. Want to get together sometime?"

Yes, it is that simple. Don't over think it. If they aren't responding to that, then sorry bro, your game does suck.
Author:  Connorlol [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 5:51 pm ]
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I tend to over think all the time. ... hmmm
Author:  TheFury [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 5:53 pm ]
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I tend to over think all the time. ... hmmm
Good. because over thinking is one of the easiest things to fix! Also, as someone else mentioned, why not go for a same night pull if you are building so much rapport when you are talking to them? Escalate physically when you are out and then see if they want to go somewhere else with you...
Author:  Connorlol [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 5:56 pm ]
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To be honest I just dont know how much sex a girl wants or dont want them to awlwardly say no... or if its that easy after talking with them in person a little bet
Author:  TheFury [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 6:13 pm ]
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To be honest I just dont know how much sex a girl wants or dont want them to awlwardly say no... or if its that easy after talking with them in person a little bet
What do you care if there is a little awkward moment? Is that really such a big deal? If a girl is into you, the worst thing that happens if you try to ask her back to your place too early is an awkward moment. No girl is going to suddenly not be into you because of that. At least not in my experience, and I almost ALWAYS ask a girl to come home w/me if I'm out or on a date. Because, like I was saying, worst case, you get a little awkward moment. No biggie!
Author:  Connorlol [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 6:19 pm ]
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True now that I think about.... should I always say my place ? What if I ask her to go to her place ?
Btw some random number just txted me saying hey conor? I replied hey whos this ? I honestly have no idea and got no reply... wtf
Author:  TheFury [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 6:32 pm ]
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True now that I think about.... should I always say my place ? What if I ask her to go to her place ?
Btw some random number just txted me saying hey conor? I replied hey whos this ? I honestly have no idea and got no reply... wtf
ah, now you see another reason why someone in here said get their number :) Yea, a girl will be turned off if she took your number and you don't even remember who she is...

I generally say my place because I have excuses other than "to have sex". Like, want to hear me play guitar, or something like that. Often I just start with: "Do you want to get out of here" and then figure out where to. It is a bit trickier to ask to go to her place from a club unless you have a hook. For example, maybe she has a pet she told you about, so use that as a "reason" to go to her place. She will likely know what's up, but if you have an excuse that works well, it won't matter because she will only say yes if she is interested in taking it further. You can even plant one during conversation, by asking her stuff about her place and then refer back to one of her answers as an excuse to "check her place out"
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 6:33 pm ]
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To be honest I just dont know how much sex a girl wants or dont want them to awlwardly say no... or if its that easy after talking with them in person a little bet

They all want to fuck stop being a dick and start fucking them... they want you to fuck them and you aren't putting out.... don't be such an asshole.

Awkwardness is a good thing... it builds tension... tension becomes sexual with physical attraction... since you automatically have physical attraction you should bask in the awkwardness with strong eye contact and a smirk. Make her break the silence... she loses then...

Dude do you never escalate on these women? (start putting your hands in sexual areas, get verbal compliance on sexual thoughts, kisses, etc.)

Still need an example of your text game dude... waiting....

I still feel if you had a strong connection to begin with (yes this is game)... you're attractive guy you've never needed to gain game... girls laugh because they're attracted not because you're funny...

Future pacing should be added to your game as well... this will allow you to make it easier when you text... you should be able to straight up text for a meet up... as fury was saying.

You have quite a bit to work out... Sexual escalation and tension seem like something you should really be working on.

If you are physically attractive I would worry more about comfort (this should be the center of your game since your looks should hook women) then anything else women will tend to get sexual with men they are attracted to... all you have to do is escalate with them silently (learn to silently sexually lead as well)... though some playful sexual banter is key. You must learn to be silent and smirk at them when they get sexual... quietly show your agreement/compliance but lead her when she says things...

Unless you are looking for same night lays... if that's what you are after I'd focus on direct game... meaning fuck comfort focus on sexual escalation and tension... dating you need to build comfort.

Peace and Love,

Vic
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