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| Author: | Jason. [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 3:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | first date |
Hey, thanks for reading. Ok so here is the situation. There is this girl that studies with me in college, and we've hit it off so i have asked her out and she said yes. That was like 3 weeks ago. So we didnt manage to go out yet, but we are still trying i guess. Yesterday i was chatting her up on SPAM and right when i was like ok lets do this and that, ill pick you up tomorrow, she stoped answering. After waiting a few hours, like something like 6 hours or more, i was like come on baby dont leave me hanging. She replied Jasoooon Im sorry im not putting enought time into this Today i have photography classes in the afternoon I havent replied yet. Idk weather i should just cut it off or keep pushing or just stop putting so much time into trying to get her, idk if she is politely kicking me to the curve or just really would like to go out with me but its just a matter of timing What do you think?? |
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| Author: | LD [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 3:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: first date |
hey mate, for starters, if you know how many hours you have been waiting, you are doing it wrong. You are way too dependant on how she is going to react and you have put all your hopes on this one girl. Its an annoying feeling. You have to be honest to yourself here, and allow me to help you with this: if she truly wants to meet up but can't because of lack of time or whatever is on her mind, she eventually will meet up. Dont break your mind pondering if she likes you or not, of this means she likes me but oooh, that doesnt look good, would she still like me? But it has to be, because she said this, etc etc etc.... If she really wants to, she will. So it is pointless to wait for her for too long. There is plenty of girls as pretty and special as this one. It can never hurt to get to know those as well. good luck and cheers! |
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| Author: | Jason. [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 7:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: first date |
Thats a fair point. But spesifically, i was thinking about responding with ok lets hang after that But i guess its pushing it too much, what should i do now? Leave ot and see what happends? I said 6 hours to remark that i didbt text her right away, cuz thats needy. |
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