Hi im new here so be nice please
Sorry for my bad spelling and grammar in advance.
My background on pick up is pretty low and iv basically only watched a few youtube videos and started reading the game. After a dry spell (i dont really finish books) something interesting happened that provoked me to get back into things.
So im at the train station and i notice a pretty cute girl next to me. I decided im not quite ready and i just wanted to get home. Another guy then sat across from her as if to ease his way into her personal space. i decided then to watch and learn from this guys painfully creepy mistakes. The guy eventually left and she then turned to me and asked what time the trains get in. i responded with '10 minutes before the departure time' the ice was broken and i decided to go in for a full blown conversation. Turns out she was headed to the same place as me so what followed was two hours of good conversation and an exchange of numbers. Sounds good right but within those two hours were a multitude of problems.
Ill start with the big one. half way through the conversation she asked my age. 'how old are you are you 7' she stuttered '7!!' i replied making a highlight of her mistake in a jokey way and she laughed. what she ment was 'are you 17' (im 20 years old and shes 24). i might be overthinking here but if she thought i was so much younger then was i in the friends zone as soon as i opened?
Iv also read up on how to add sexual tension to a conversation and i felt like there was non apart from when i accidently accused her of sucking cock -if that even counts- (EVEN LONGER story so yh, just know it was an accident and we laughed about it). I felt like the coffee shop/train and the two hour train ride was too long a committed journey to add sexual escalation to a conversation. There wasn't really an opportunity to break rapour and leave on an high note or leave here wanting more. There were few silent moments and even when there was it never felt awkward but at the same time being face to face on this train felt like i was locked into conversation.
What im trying to say is that when i got he number, i felt like i made a new friend more than anything els. Im not scared of the friends zone, i realize there are some ways to break free from it but i want to know what i could have done better if anything?
The other problem was that she was traveling to meet a male friend. I asked if she had a boyfriend and she responded 'male friend'. so anyway even if this guy makes a move up to boyfriend she spends most of her time in my part of the country as where she was born and now works is where i study full time (i assume that means if my game is strong enough, advantage me.) This guy was much more nicely dressed than me i must admit as he was expecting to meet her and i just wanted to get home from an 1 day stay in town to attend a job interview. As we ran into this guy at the train station we were introduced to each other and as they were about to do their own thing i shook his hand and said bye to both of them.
so what can i do better?
and is there a way to make her think of me as older or is that not necessary now that she knows?