Hey guys,
Well this is my first post, but I have been reading PUA material for a while and it has really helped me...but im stuck on this friendzoned bull.
So anyways there is this HB, at least a 9. We go to the same uni, were SPAM in our first year but not that close and i have a gf at that time. 2nd year comes and we get closer...going to bars, clubs, studying together and just having fun, but it always seemed to me to be more than friends.
One night we both drink way too much, dancing together etc and the next day i couldnt remember what had happened; I ask her if she remembered the whole night, she says "yes", I then ask her if we hooked up, she said that she "couldnt remember".
It is important to note that I am still in a relationship at this point.
The following day she asks me to go to visit her on one of our uni's holidays in Norway (she is Norwegian), I decline for obvious reasons; but we go out the next night where she tells me if i was single she would "have fallen in love with me", but still refers to me as her "buddy/brother"- I clearly feel friendzoned here
. I decide to break contact for the summer and now after 1 month (and her getting into a casual relationship) get a text from her at 3 am saying "miss you..."
How the hell do I reply to this; just ignore it or answer some cocky-funny way?
I am still with my gf, but know there are some feelings stirring for this other girl. I have never been unfaithful to my girl, as this post may make me look like an asshole lol.
Anyways thanks guys!