I think that if I can improve my social skills to be average socially, I think I can be very good with woman. I consider myself a very good looking man and have a good body. I do attract good looking woman from my looks and the way I dress, but I struggle with the social aspect of it, I feel that a girl sees me and is instantly attracted to me, but when I interact with them they lose attraction towards me instantly. I feel like girls expect me to be this confident kid, because I dress confidently and am well groomed, but when they get to know my personality they feel like my personality does not meet my initial appearance. I have a extremely good confidence level in my looks but a low level of confidence in my social interaction and that is what brings me down.

I am good with people I know, I am moderately interesting and funny with people I know but I would be considered boring to a person that I don't know and just met, Some people might think I am intimidated by the good looking girls, but I am not. I am not ever intimidated by a girls physical appearance. I would have the same exact conversation with a hot girl and an ugly fat girl. When in a conversation, I often give one sentence answers. I don't elaborate on things. I have trouble describing things. I am not funny with new people. I am not charismatic. I just have boring conversations with people (Where you from, Where do you work? etc) I am awkward. When a girl stares at me basically inviting me to talk to her, I get nervous not because I wonder if she wants me or not, but because I don't want to go over there, start talking with her, and have the conversation be awkward and boring. I feel awkward asking for a girls number even if I know she wants me. I always rather attempt to make out with a girl than to ask for her number. And I usually always only get a girls number if I make out with her, because for me making out with someone makes me feel comfortable with her. I am deathly afraid of first dates with someone I just met because I think it'll be awkward. If there is a girl I dont know and one of my guy friends in a room with me and my friend goes to the bathroom (and its just me and a girl in a room), I get real tense. I have great success with girls by going onto the dance floor, using my looks by asking them to dance, and then I hook up with them. Once I hook up with them, I am totally relaxed and myself.

So how do I improve this? How do I improve on my social skills? How do I improve my humor in conversations? It sucks how a girl always expects the guy to initiate things socially, but its the Gods honest truth. I need to improve myself. Are there any good books to read or any suggestions? Thank you I really appreciate you guys taking the time to help me out.

You are 150% correct my man. You wanna know how to improve your social skills? Not by reading a bunch of books. It's by getting out of your fucking house and actually using them. Make it a habit to go out and just talk to people atleast 30-45 minutes a day and just keep improving your interactions. Pay attention to where you start to weird people out.

You are 150% correct my man. You wanna know how to improve your social skills? Not by reading a bunch of books. It's by getting out of your fucking house and actually using them. Make it a habit to go out and just talk to people atleast 30-45 minutes a day and just keep improving your interactions. Pay attention to where you start to weird people out.