They way I started was with help of a stranger. He asked me if I was having a good time I replied with a nod and said, "Yeah I can dig this I like the music." So he goes and asked the question, "Have you danced with any girls yet?" As I replied with a no I pictured myself asking HBs to dance but all I could think of was crashing and burning. I told him that since it's my first time I'll just sit and chill plus I never danced with a girl before. This guy gave me the talk that changed my clubbing life. He said, "I knew that feeling you're feeling, it's about rejection right. Well say fuck you to the guy in your head that's fucking up this guy in the club (me). There has been many times where I have been rejected but the rejections are not harsh, it's just a no, that's it. Simply say, "Okay, have a nice night" with a smile. Some might end up dancing with you later because you're not a douche that would say fuck you then bitch after a little rejection. There's nights where you would get zero yes's and nights where you can't count how many girls you danced with." After he told me that I agreed. As he pulled me up and said, "I'll be your wingman for few" two very attracted girls walk down the stairs. He looked at me and said, "Them two right there!" At that moment I'm a state of shock because this guy want me to grind with a HB9 with an ass that makes her a HB10.5. I view myself as a solid 5.5 so I quickly said, "Nah she's too hot for me" he looked at me with a strong glare and said, "You ARE dancing with her, LET'S GO!" They come down from facing us and he stopped them and asked if they would like to dance. THEY SAID YES! next thing I know I'm grinding with one of the hottest girls I've seen. After that I maned up and wanted to get better. So that night I went and ask 11 more girls. 7 were yes 4 were no.
These are the techniques that I go by.
1. DO NOT be that guy that's just standing on the side.
If you're on the dance floor dancing having a great ass time, girls take notice. They view you as someone that knows how to have fun.
2. DO NOT stand on the dance floor.
It's creepy and annoying to people dancing.
3. Merge yourself into other peoples groups on the dance floor.
They remember the strong fun vibe you bring with you, you start having connections and once again, girls take notice.
4. Don't drool over girls.
That makes you every other guy. Give yourself higher value. Ignore them and dance, as you dance you may look at them with a smile (still dancing) and transfer your energy into her.
5. If there's a stage DANCE ON THAT.
It literally makes you the center of attention.
To dance with girls you must be comfortable dancing by yourself.
It's almost been a year since that guy has helped me an now girls ask ME to dance.
That's all I have but I hope at least one thing from what I wrote can help!
