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Author:  aussiearef [ Tue Jul 30, 2013 4:11 am ]
Post subject:  Fix a bad impression
Hi guys,

Please help me with this one: 16 days ago I went on a first date with a girl. I made a mistake and I did too much kino, so that she thought I was too fast and asked me to slow down.

After a few dates I asked her out again but she said she had a pilates class and said "maybe later". I told her "No worries, you tell me when you are free" and she said "OK" but she did not get back to me again.

Since she was a very good girl and I know it was my own mistake, plus because I want to learn the recovering tactics, I want to fix that bad impression that I made and recover this case.

I read an ebook which was part of Magic Bullets product. In that ebook it is said that I have to freeze out for 21 days and then contact her again. To me 21 days sounds a bit too long because she might think I am not interested any more. Also, I don't know what opener to use to open her again.

p.s. In the past 16 days I posted some photos and similar stuff on my FB page and she liked them! In case knowing this helps!

I appreciate your replies :)
Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Tue Jul 30, 2013 3:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fix a bad impression
Quote:
Hi guys,

Please help me with this one: 16 days ago I went on a first date with a girl. I made a mistake and I did too much kino, so that she thought I was too fast and asked me to slow down.

After a few dates I asked her out again but she said she had a pilates class and said "maybe later". I told her "No worries, you tell me when you are free" and she said "OK" but she did not get back to me again.

Since she was a very good girl and I know it was my own mistake, plus because I want to learn the recovering tactics, I want to fix that bad impression that I made and recover this case.

I read an ebook which was part of Magic Bullets product. In that ebook it is said that I have to freeze out for 21 days and then contact her again. To me 21 days sounds a bit too long because she might think I am not interested any more. Also, I don't know what opener to use to open her again.


p.s. In the past 16 days I posted some photos and similar stuff on my FB page and she liked them! In case knowing this helps!

I appreciate your replies :)

Hey mate I agree 21 days may be a bit much. I would say just play it cool don't read too much into her liking your pics. I would definitely say take sometime away so you don't compound it by looking needy. In the meantime get out there meet other girls get your mind off her then after a while shhot her a txt say hey what's up something simple. I made the mistake one time of appearing needy even though I wasn't. we went out I texted her the next day had a casual convo then the next night I texted her hey what are you up to? The convo didn't go as planned so I froze her out 10 days after 6 she txted me and wanted to hangout. Hope that helps good luck.
Author:  zwiggelbig [ Tue Jul 30, 2013 4:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fix a bad impression
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Hi guys,

Please help me with this one: 16 days ago I went on a first date with a girl. I made a mistake and I did too much kino, so that she thought I was too fast and asked me to slow down.

After a few dates I asked her out again but she said she had a pilates class and said "maybe later". I told her "No worries, you tell me when you are free" and she said "OK" but she did not get back to me again.

Since she was a very good girl and I know it was my own mistake, plus because I want to learn the recovering tactics, I want to fix that bad impression that I made and recover this case.

I read an ebook which was part of Magic Bullets product. In that ebook it is said that I have to freeze out for 21 days and then contact her again. To me 21 days sounds a bit too long because she might think I am not interested any more. Also, I don't know what opener to use to open her again.


p.s. In the past 16 days I posted some photos and similar stuff on my FB page and she liked them! In case knowing this helps!

I appreciate your replies :)

Something I learned..

NEVER EVER tell a girl that she should let you know when she has time to date. And don't see that as a rejection. You should now just send out a text like. Heey I'm at bla bla bla, you should come join me. Or: Heey I'm going to .... with friends, you should come aswell!

It also works when you are already doing or had something planned and you invite her to it. If you do want to ask her out. Dont be like. Hey we should hang out again, uhm do you have time this week? Just be like. Hey I just found a new place where they have amazing cofee, can you make tommorow evening 7pm at....
Author:  Malcolm Thomas [ Tue Jul 30, 2013 6:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fix a bad impression
Just chalk this lesson up as a learning experience. She probably isn't interested in you any longer because you moved too fast for her. Maybe you guys lacked sexual chemistry
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