PUA Forum :: Started a Freezout, Not Sure If Good Idea

Your freeze out kinda failed, so here's what i would do. Message her saying something only she would get, some inside joke or something, and pretend the past couple of days didn't happen at all. Be cool, be the guy she likes, if everything goes well then continue on. If she gives you cause again, do a proper freeze out, but from what I'm seeing, she was running back the next day and she didn't really do anything wrong. There was no need for a 10 day freeze out in the first place imo.

Message her saying something only she would get, some inside joke or something, and pretend the past couple of days didn't happen at all. Be cool, be the guy she likes, if everything goes well then continue on. If she gives you cause again, do a proper freeze out, but from what I'm seeing, she was running back the next day and she didn't really do anything wrong. There was no need for a 10 day freeze out in the first place imo.

Hey man,

When you start worrying about what a girl is "thinking" or why you should treat her different because of "this or that" you're behaving like a woman. She isn't going anywhere. 10 Days is nothing and she is already highly invested since she's been showing this much attention since you began ignoring her.

2nd: Why would you respond to her calling you "butthead" anyway? Those that the small ways that women begin to strip power from the man. Once or twice its cool, but next thing you know she gradually takes it to a level where she can't ever respect you.

There are no " special" situations, the advice that was giving to you was giving from someone who's been in your shoes that knows better. Don't let the "over active" mind and its contradicting thoughts hinder your success.

You are more than just a "mind"

Joey

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Good shit, thanks! Shouldn't even worry about the no contact ?

Author:	Moscow [ Mon Jul 29, 2013 10:02 pm ]
Post subject:	Started a Freezout, Not Sure If Good Idea
Been talking to a girl for a few weeks, she became extremely invested and was attracted to me, she then either got mad, or lost attraction when I sent her a teasing text: Me: "you should really stop zoning out all the time, theres things to enjoy in the present." Her: "if yur gunna try to change me, we can't really be close anymore" Since that, her replies have been cold, and she no longer initiates convos as she once did. So, I few of the experienced PUAs on here told me to do a 10day straight freeze out, no replies, not even reading her facebook messages (says "seen" or "sent" on her screen depending if I have read them or not), all was going well. 1 day in Her: "im too lazy to watch the video you sent me" (funny meditation clip i sent her the dy before, which she knew i sent her the other day, but only read that day) Her: "now let's see how long it takes until you "see" this message hahaha" Her: "you have aprox ten minutes before i fall asleep" I ignore her msgs and dont read em. 2days in Her: "Butthead" I dont read it. Then around 1am, I fucking accidently clicked on her messages, and didnt quit fast enough, so now it will show that i read her messages. She was offline at the time. Then today I posted a funny status on the college facebook page totally forgetting about her, which she has yet to see, but instead of making me look busy, it just looks like im ignoring her or playing games, i "seen" her msg, ignored it, then posted a status on a page which she is also a part of, and will most definitley see. Why am I worried about whether or not a freeze out is appropriate? She once told me, how when people figure out something about her life, a lot of them dont know how to handle it, or act like chodes and stop talking to her because of some little thing. So, I don't want her to think im ignoring her because I dont want to be around someone like her. I see her in about 3weeks in college again, I've been hanging out with her before, shes a cool girl. Maybe im overthinking, because a freeze out did seem perfect until I remembered this. And until I accidently clicked on her messages LOL. The point of the freeze out was to appear busy, as I was investing way more than she was investing back after the whole texting incident i mentioned in the beginning. I needed to appear like i have better shit to do, and now I feel as if it looks more like im playing fucking mind games with her. Continue the freeze out? Or not? Dont want to lose her, I want her to be back in the greenzone by the time school starts. I dont want her to give up.

Author:	letspu [ Tue Jul 30, 2013 1:37 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Started a Freezout, Not Sure If Good Idea
Your freeze out kinda failed, so here's what i would do. Message her saying something only she would get, some inside joke or something, and pretend the past couple of days didn't happen at all. Be cool, be the guy she likes, if everything goes well then continue on. If she gives you cause again, do a proper freeze out, but from what I'm seeing, she was running back the next day and she didn't really do anything wrong. There was no need for a 10 day freeze out in the first place imo.

Author:	Moscow [ Tue Jul 30, 2013 2:32 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Started a Freezout, Not Sure If Good Idea
Quote: Your freeze out kinda failed, so here's what i would do. Message her saying something only she would get, some inside joke or something, and pretend the past couple of days didn't happen at all. Be cool, be the guy she likes, if everything goes well then continue on. If she gives you cause again, do a proper freeze out, but from what I'm seeing, she was running back the next day and she didn't really do anything wrong. There was no need for a 10 day freeze out in the first place imo. no theres reason behind it, a couple other guys know the entire story.

Author:	Moscow [ Sun Aug 04, 2013 3:32 am ]
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Bump

Author:	Moscow [ Sun Aug 04, 2013 3:33 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Started a Freezout, Not Sure If Good Idea
It is now approaching the end of day 5, still haven't heard from her.

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Author:	Soy Un Pony Dork [ Sun Aug 04, 2013 8:26 pm ]
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Quote: Message her saying something only she would get, some inside joke or something, and pretend the past couple of days didn't happen at all. Be cool, be the guy she likes, if everything goes well then continue on. If she gives you cause again, do a proper freeze out, but from what I'm seeing, she was running back the next day and she didn't really do anything wrong. There was no need for a 10 day freeze out in the first place imo. Did you message her? I agree with this guy.

Author:	Moscow [ Mon Aug 05, 2013 8:51 pm ]
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Did not, still no contact.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Mon Aug 05, 2013 9:01 pm ]
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Hey man, When you start worrying about what a girl is "thinking" or why you should treat her different because of "this or that" you're behaving like a woman. She isn't going anywhere. 10 Days is nothing and she is already highly invested since she's been showing this much attention since you began ignoring her. 2nd: Why would you respond to her calling you "butthead" anyway? Those are the small ways that women begin to strip power from the man. Once or twice its cool, but next thing you know she gradually takes it to a level where she can't ever respect you. There are no " special" situations, the advice that was giving to you was giving from someone who's been in your shoes that knows better. Don't let the "over active" mind and its contradicting thoughts hinder your success. You are more than just a "mind" Joey

Author:	Moscow [ Mon Aug 05, 2013 9:02 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Started a Freezout, Not Sure If Good Idea
Quote: Hey man, When you start worrying about what a girl is "thinking" or why you should treat her different because of "this or that" you're behaving like a woman. She isn't going anywhere. 10 Days is nothing and she is already highly invested since she's been showing this much attention since you began ignoring her. 2nd: Why would you respond to her calling you "butthead" anyway? Those that the small ways that women begin to strip power from the man. Once or twice its cool, but next thing you know she gradually takes it to a level where she can't ever respect you. There are no " special" situations, the advice that was giving to you was giving from someone who's been in your shoes that knows better. Don't let the "over active" mind and its contradicting thoughts hinder your success. You are more than just a "mind" Joey Good shit, thanks! Shouldn't even worry about the no contact ?

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Mon Aug 05, 2013 9:14 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Started a Freezout, Not Sure If Good Idea
Quote: Quote: Hey man, When you start worrying about what a girl is "thinking" or why you should treat her different because of "this or that" you're behaving like a woman. She isn't going anywhere. 10 Days is nothing and she is already highly invested since she's been showing this much attention since you began ignoring her. 2nd: Why would you respond to her calling you "butthead" anyway? Those that the small ways that women begin to strip power from the man. Once or twice its cool, but next thing you know she gradually takes it to a level where she can't ever respect you. There are no " special" situations, the advice that was giving to you was giving from someone who's been in your shoes that knows better. Don't let the "over active" mind and its contradicting thoughts hinder your success. You are more than just a "mind" Joey Good shit, thanks! Shouldn't even worry about the no contact ? I'm pretty sure I just answered that.

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