Hello,

New man here. Positive about the future and fixing the err of my ways.

First of all, could somebody please explain why telling someone that you like them is a turn off? I tend to be quite forward and open when I try to invite a woman into my life and always make this mistake. One girl still seems to put my meager attempt at conversation off as though this locked me out forever. its a mistake I have made more than once it seems.

Secondly, reader of real books here. I would like some suggestions of books to read about attraction. I've skimmed through The Game and it seemed like a guide to sticking your sick into something - which may not be bad about now - but is that also the book for those of us wanting a real relationship?

Your attention is greatly appreciated.