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Author:  Schibles [ Tue Jul 23, 2013 2:45 am ]
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Got a girls phone number who was an assistant at where I get my haircut,

Cute, Immigrated to NA from Germany (Half Russian) 3 or 4 years ago. I just came from Europe after 6 months and didn't have a phone so I would use Facebook for interaction. Any thoughts? (She gave me her number on paper and I said if u get a call from a random number it's probably me). This was 2 days ago


Cheers
Author:  manilahottie [ Tue Jul 23, 2013 4:52 am ]
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Call her and ask her out!
Author:  Arrow9 [ Tue Jul 23, 2013 6:28 am ]
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Don't wait any longer to contact her,
I made a HUGE mistake a while ago, I got a number close from a women who looked like Megan Fox
she was a HB9. She invited me to a party that she was throwing at her house the following week. Told me she wanted me to see her professional beer pong table, her dogs, and said that she was surprised I was the first guy who approached her at a bar who didn't come off as creepy.

Waited a full week to text her, she didn't reply. Women are more forgetful and more easily side tracked than men. If you wait TOO long, she won't feel the same interest she did when she first gave you her number.

As for the calling or texting. Text her and make it short in words. Try to meet her in person again soon as possible without coming off as needy. Women may be glued to their phones but you can't really build the right attraction through them.

Hope this helps,
Arrow
Author:  TheFury [ Tue Jul 23, 2013 4:36 pm ]
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I would text as it seems like there might be a potential language barrier? Either way I prefer text, much easier to not mess it up, and I find messaging/calling/non face to face interactions are much better used for logistics than attraction.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Jul 23, 2013 5:24 pm ]
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Call her bro.. Calling is always better because it allows you to connect with the person you are talking to tonality and verbally. Attraction can easily be build, you can literary invite girls over to your house from the phone and bang them without ever going on a date.

Now if the language barrier becomes an issue as Furry said, just text. But try the phone call first.
Author:  Schibles [ Tue Jul 30, 2013 11:23 pm ]
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thanks guys,

turns out she has a fucking BF. I don't care he can go to hell, why would she give out her digits?
Author:  skills360 [ Wed Jul 31, 2013 1:45 pm ]
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if she says she has a bf is cause she doesn't like you, girls with bf usually do not give the phone number. Text for the win, do not waste time on the phone.. Now a days calling is counter productive.
Author:  .Sage. [ Wed Jul 31, 2013 1:59 pm ]
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if she says she has a bf is cause she doesn't like you, girls with bf usually do not give the phone number. Text for the win, do not waste time on the phone.. Now a days calling is counter productive.
I'd love to hear why.

Calling makes you stand out from the rest of guy that text her and gets a girl more comfortable to your voice, and it's 2nd best for setting up dates.(First being face to face)

It's good to call her at the very least once, the day you get her number and just flirt over the phone and build more comfort(Drop of a hint of a possible day 2). Then I personally let it cool down for a bit before calling her again to set up the date, but do what works for you.


Syx
Author:  skills360 [ Wed Jul 31, 2013 2:06 pm ]
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if she says she has a bf is cause she doesn't like you, girls with bf usually do not give the phone number. Text for the win, do not waste time on the phone.. Now a days calling is counter productive.
I'd love to hear why.

Calling makes you stand out from the rest of guy that text her and gets a girl more comfortable to your voice, and it's 2nd best for setting up dates.(First being face to face)

It's good to call her at the very least once, the day you get her number and just flirt over the phone and build more comfort(Drop of a hint of a possible day 2). Then I personally let it cool down for a bit before calling her again to set up the date, but do what works for you.


Syx

Now a days calling is counter productive, women are into texting, some women if you call will come across as too interested/needy. Also texting is more efficient, you can text multiple women and waste minimal time. Texting get them more invested, convenient, easier for them to open up, less room for error etc...

Texting for the win..

http://www.theskillsmethod.com/how-to-p ... encounter/
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Jul 31, 2013 6:54 pm ]
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if she says she has a bf is cause she doesn't like you, girls with bf usually do not give the phone number. Text for the win, do not waste time on the phone.. Now a days calling is counter productive.

I have to completely disagree. I'm not sure where in the world you are located but I've never experienced this in NYC.

I'm not saying its possible, but I find it more difficult to text a girl for 20 mins and then have her show up at my house for a "1st date". When talking on the phone, I( and many others) can get a girl I've never spoken to before over to my place within 20 mins of phone conversation. I have to say, that is a lot more efficient than any texting method I've came across.

However, I'm opening minded and always welcomed to learning so if you can provide me with a texting method that gets a girl over to mines in 19 mins or less I'd love to check that out.

Thanks bro.
Author:  skills360 [ Wed Jul 31, 2013 11:01 pm ]
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Quote:
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if she says she has a bf is cause she doesn't like you, girls with bf usually do not give the phone number. Text for the win, do not waste time on the phone.. Now a days calling is counter productive.

I have to completely disagree. I'm not sure where in the world you are located but I've never experienced this in NYC.

I'm not saying its possible, but I find it more difficult to text a girl for 20 mins and then have her show up at my house for a "1st date". When talking on the phone, I( and many others) can get a girl I've never spoken to before over to my place within 20 mins of phone conversation. I have to say, that is a lot more efficient than any texting method I've came across.

However, I'm opening minded and always welcomed to learning so if you can provide me with a texting method that gets a girl over to mines in 19 mins or less I'd love to check that out.

Thanks bro.

^ there is no right or wrong way, it is what works for you... If is working for you why mess with success. Remember I do club game and I have a heavy latin accent so for me it does not work well... Do you! what works for you!...

With that being said most of the top guys now are doing texting...

p.s. you got the last name skillzzzzzz wtf! so you got some of my blood, haha!
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Jul 31, 2013 11:05 pm ]
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p.s. you got the last name skillzzzzzz wtf! so you got some of my blood, haha!
Skills, congratulations. You are the father!
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Jul 31, 2013 11:34 pm ]
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Haha well my last name is " Skillman" so if you share that, we may in fact be related.
Author:  manilahottie [ Thu Oct 03, 2013 10:27 am ]
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thanks guys,

turns out she has a fucking BF. I don't care he can go to hell, why would she give out her digits?
Could be a shit test. How exactly did the interaction go?
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