PUA Forum :: Oneitis

Hey guys,
About a month ago i readded my oneitiskindathingie and after a month she decided to accept it. Anyway i did have one quick little convo that went like this:
me: Heey girl
Her: hi
Me: Hows life?
Her: good
Me: Hehe im great aswell, hows your holiday?
wtf is this? "Hehe" ?? are you a little girl? a top that all she said was "good" what is there to laugh at?
Her: nice
Me: your going on a trip?
Her: yeah
Her: but i got to go
Me: hmm where?
Her: somewhere fun
Me: i didn't know you were going to *area i live in*^^
Her: i don't call that fun hah
Me: So cute (;
Her: No?
Me: i mean you trying to be that cold
i honestly was as confused as she was at this point haha, but it turned out ok i guess, but still a bit outta the blue it seems
Me: but i got to leave my sparringbuddies finally arrived cya around kiddo
I went offline at this point
Her: Maybe that shows my opinion hasn't changed
But okay
cya

Okay she kinda still detests me, because i afced the f out back a long time ago after we had a fight, because to be honoust my life kind went to a murphy's law fase which i don't really share with people around me, emotionally im a really closed up guy. How can i tell her in a non afc way about that fase? Or shouldn't i even mention it? And did i handle this convo well? I know i shouldn't apologize but is it wrong to show some vulnerability?

Final note: kinda lost interest in her since i've been talking to more girls, but still wouldn't mind doing her ;p

Author:	Beast2013 [ Sat Jul 20, 2013 3:50 pm ]
Post subject:	Oneitis
Hey guys, About a month ago i readded my oneitiskindathingie and after a month she decided to accept it. Anyway i did have one quick little convo that went like this: me: Heey girl Her: hi Me: Hows life? Her: good Me: Hehe im great aswell, hows your holiday? Her: nice Me: your going on a trip? Her: yeah Her: but i got to go Me: hmm where? Her: somewhere fun Me: i didn't know you were going to area i live in^^ Her: i don't call that fun hah Me: So cute (; Her: No? Me: i mean you trying to be that cold Me: but i got to leave my sparringbuddies finally arrived cya around kiddo I went offline at this point Her: Maybe that shows my opinion hasn't changed But okay cya Okay she kinda still detests me, because i afced the f out back a long time ago after we had a fight, because to be honoust my life kind went to a murphy's law fase which i don't really share with people around me, emotionally im a really closed up guy. How can i tell her in a non afc way about that fase? Or shouldn't i even mention it? And did i handle this convo well? I know i shouldn't apologize but is it wrong to show some vulnerability? Final note: kinda lost interest in her since i've been talking to more girls, but still wouldn't mind doing her ;p

Author:	bundy [ Sat Jul 20, 2013 11:32 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Oneitis
Quote: Hey guys, About a month ago i readded my oneitiskindathingie and after a month she decided to accept it. Anyway i did have one quick little convo that went like this: me: Heey girl Her: hi Me: Hows life? Her: good Me: Hehe im great aswell, hows your holiday? wtf is this? "Hehe" ?? are you a little girl? a top that all she said was "good" what is there to laugh at? Her: nice Me: your going on a trip? Her: yeah Her: but i got to go Me: hmm where? Her: somewhere fun Me: i didn't know you were going to area i live in^^ Her: i don't call that fun hah Me: So cute (; Her: No? Me: i mean you trying to be that cold i honestly was as confused as she was at this point haha, but it turned out ok i guess, but still a bit outta the blue it seems Me: but i got to leave my sparringbuddies finally arrived cya around kiddo I went offline at this point Her: Maybe that shows my opinion hasn't changed But okay cya Okay she kinda still detests me, because i afced the f out back a long time ago after we had a fight, because to be honoust my life kind went to a murphy's law fase which i don't really share with people around me, emotionally im a really closed up guy. How can i tell her in a non afc way about that fase? Or shouldn't i even mention it? And did i handle this convo well? I know i shouldn't apologize but is it wrong to show some vulnerability? Final note: kinda lost interest in her since i've been talking to more girls, but still wouldn't mind doing her ;p and yea, she has no interest it seems, look how brief all of her responses are to your questions. Plus, she is giving the minimum answer like when you asked your going on a trip? Instead of saying yeah im going to xxx she said "yeah." Move on bro

Author:	Beast2013 [ Sun Jul 21, 2013 9:11 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Oneitis
Thank you very much, i will. Did get her to open up though and got a lot of info of whats unattractive about me so wasn't a total waste.

Author:	LesOrange [ Sun Jul 21, 2013 3:01 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Oneitis
Your prospects look pretty bleak... There's always that slim chance that you can turn it around, but is it really worth the effort and potentially making yourself seem desperate? I say no. You've probably been told this before, but go out and start chatting with other women. Once you've got a few texting/calling you she will be the last thing on your mind.

Author:	Beast2013 [ Sun Jul 21, 2013 3:23 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Oneitis
Thanks you are right. They're millions of other girls left so why put so much effort into her, when I should be putting it in self-improvement.

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Author:	Dusty-Page [ Sun Jul 21, 2013 5:18 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Oneitis
Sup muh dude, Dusty here,(p.s my best friend's nick is actually, Beast.) Anyway allow me to drop my two cents: I'm going to be honest man, I was in super cringe mode reading thru that text conversation (I just blazed purple haze, so I actually tripped reading that) After that text exchange you were supposed to know exactly where you stand, in terms of getting back with her or if she still has hidden feelings for you. Basically if there's still a ray of hope. And the simple answer to that would be NO. She makes it pretty clear that she has no interest, none whatsoever, in anything romantic with you. So yeah only thing to do now is, move on, get tang in abundance. I know how bad one-itis can get, I suffered from it myself as a teen, but you will get over her, unless you think she's is the best you can get. Which is BULLSHIT, and you need to change that mindset asap. Doesn't matter how awesome she is, you can get women who are equally hot, interesting etc. I mean you managed to land her, right? Why can’t you get someone of equal quality again? I'm glad to hear you're getting out there, worse thing to do after a breakup is to sit and mope. So cheers muh Dude, wish you well with all future adventures in the chasing and slaying of tang. Side note: (please don't contact her again) D.P

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