I get the impression it litterly does...but why? It's happened to me at least 5 times in the last year with three different groups. Sometimes I could just be sitting there in a mixed group, merely just being behaved and minding my own or just listening to what others have to say, next thing one of the girls litterly flies off the handle for no apparent reason and says something like 'I really dont like guys who say nothing!
' or 'I bet you get drunk after drinking that one pint' (In a very negative tone) The other two times one of them complained to my brother that I was being too LOUD (I was the quietest one there) and during that same night I was just sipping vodka and the house-owners mother gets all up in my face again for no reason, I was just sitting there being behaved and listening and she was like 'Oh, you should get a fucking life' The people I was listening to stood up for me and I told her 'Don't embarass yourself.' Another time I just came up to a group and said hi, I didn't really say much afterwards but one of the males muttered something smart and they left not too after, a couple of days later one of the rug-lickers of the group was being extremely indirectly offsensive about me using her SPAM status, I figured this particular one has serious personal issues with men thoughSo what exactly is up with that? Is there any scientific reason why women hate quiet guys? I mean, i didn't directly upset them nor did I ever intend to, im just not much of a talker
As for shit-testing, there was a time i'd take it as a personal attack but my ability to turn a potentially ugly scenario into a pleasant one is improving. I suppose I shouldn't depend on talking, at least not too much of it but it's obviously important to be able to talk, if you need to. It's not something that comes naturally to me but its definately a skill i'd like to improve on. The first time I kissed a girl I never exchanged a word with her (Although we were 13 and 14 years old) until after I kissed her, she just saw me on the playground bench and wanted me o3o Perhaps a shit-test is kind of like a female neg? Its obviously important to not only not take those personally but show that it doesn't effect your drive, ambitions or how you think about yourself, thats obviously what they look for in a guy, shatter-proof confidence, thanks for your response