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Author:  vxone [ Wed Jul 17, 2013 1:00 pm ]
Post subject:  purposely skipping the kiss on the first date?
met a chick who ive been texting for a couple weeks now...ive tested the waters with being sexual via text and she doesnt give too much up....seems less sexual than most girls but shes been showing a lot of interest none the less.

i flaked the first time she asked me to hang out, i told her i wasnt feeling well, it was actually because of another girl.

last night was the first time together alone...went to a really interesting spot to watch stars (unfortunately there were 10 other poeple there). i was cocky funny the whole time, got a lot of good feedback from my sarcasm, and got comments from her like "you dont seem like most guys"...and "when are you taking the next girl here??" i played along saying things like "too bad", and "probably a couple weeks, ive been busy ;)"

only kino i attemped was my arm around her shoulder and held her hand to help her across some rocks...playfully pushed her a few times but wasnt getting too many physical IOIs so i didnt escalate.

there were some moments of silence that lasted a couple minutes while we were walking...but i just played like i was disinterested and didnt try to break the silence.

none the less i never got comfortably close enough to pull a kiss on the date....
and i didnt want to end the date with an awkward forced kiss so i went went straight to a hug as if i wasnt that interested in her..

she said she had a really good time and i replied "i did to it was nice to meet you"

i ended it right there and i never mentioned i would contact her, based on the circumstances kissing wouldnt be natural so i wanted to throw off the vibe that i wasnt that interested in her.

this may have helped me but i dont know if i should initiate first contact with her now or if i should wait a few days for her to contact me
Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Wed Jul 17, 2013 1:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: purposely skipping the kiss on the first date?
Quote:
met a chick who ive been texting for a couple weeks now...ive tested the waters with being sexual via text and she doesnt give too much up....seems less sexual than most girls but shes been showing a lot of interest none the less.

i flaked the first time she asked me to hang out, i told her i wasnt feeling well, it was actually because of another girl.

last night was the first time together alone...went to a really interesting spot to watch stars (unfortunately there were 10 other poeple there). i was cocky funny the whole time, got a lot of good feedback from my sarcasm, and got comments from her like "you dont seem like most guys"...and "when are you taking the next girl here??" i played along saying things like "too bad", and "probably a couple weeks, ive been busy ;)"

only kino i attemped was my arm around her shoulder and held her hand to help her across some rocks...playfully pushed her a few times but wasnt getting too many physical IOIs so i didnt escalate


I'd wait give it a cpl days by the sounds of things I think she'll be texting you. If she doesn't and you wanna talk to her again text her this. Clearly this relationship is not working out we need a divorce I get the house cars and money you take the kids. I've used that line 5 or 6 times with positive results everytime. Also its kind of a cocky/sarcastic way to initiate contact without sounding needy.








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there were some moments of silence that lasted a couple minutes while we were walking...but i just played like i was disinterested and didnt try to break the silence.

none the less i never got comfortably close enough to pull a kiss on the date....
and i didnt want to end the date with an awkward forced kiss so i went went straight to a hug as if i wasnt that interested in her..

she said she had a really good time and i replied "i did to it was nice to meet you"

i ended it right there and i never mentioned i would contact her, based on the circumstances kissing wouldnt be natural so i wanted to throw off the vibe that i wasnt that interested in her.

this may have helped me but i dont know if i should initiate first contact with her now or if i should wait a few days for her to contact me
Author:  Ladies Man College [ Wed Jul 17, 2013 1:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: purposely skipping the kiss on the first date?
How long has it been since that date?

And my advice would be to give her all these mixed signals - that way, she chases you.

Wait a day before contacting her, take a few hours to text her back even if she replies straight away - this conveys to her that you actually have a life.

Then tell her to meet up with you at such and such a location.

It sounds like on that date, you didn't really have perfect logistics - set it up next time so that you take her to a place you can sleep with her, maybe a bar near your house...

Hope this helps dude, any questions - hit me up :=)

Zak
Author:  vxone [ Mon Jul 22, 2013 7:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: purposely skipping the kiss on the first date?
she got back to me two days later

"hey good morning, i think i left my bug spray in your car"

i replied about an hour later "no problem, you did it on purpose"

convo went on for a while and she definitely showed her interest, or she just wanted me to suppliment her ego by sending her some interest in return

i texted her the next day just bullshiting about work and told her to come mow my lawn for me as a joke...she replied with a haha im sorry im busy tonight with kickboxing.

i havnt texted since, and she hasnt texted over the weekend, pretty sure she just wants me to chase her to boost her ego
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