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| Author: | Paramount21 [ Wed Jul 17, 2013 12:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | MPUA: What is gonna kill my limiting belief for good? |
MPUA, I know I have a life to live and it is not going to be lived on the forums. I want to truly put an end to all this and just flat out leave this forum in peace (without a ban or anything). basically long story short I have a limiting belief that my Indian ethnic appearance will stop me from getting laid by attractive White women worldwide because Hollywood, media, and stereotypes are bad about men of my heritage. Also, I have never in my life seen or known an Indian guy with a girlfriend or wife who was White or an Indian guy that constantly hooked up with pretty looking White girls. And I live in Atlanta which has a SHITLOAD of Indians and a lot of pretty White girls. My time on forums needs to come to an end soon and I do plan on leaving this forum soon in a good conscience. I want to lose my limiting belief about my race getting in my way of doing well with women because: 1. It is stopping me from living a happy life 2. It has stopped me from showing members of this forum just how bright and friendly of a person I can be 3. It has alienated a lot of users on here no question about it 4. It made me say no to a trip to Europe because I was afraid while my 2 White friends would have no issues hooking up with White girls in Europe, I would due to my ethnic appearance So I have been thinking myself how I can lose the limiting belief and I have thought of some things. 1. Seeing a therapist or psychologist might seem like a good idea but in reality I don't see it helping me. Problem is because if I told them that they would just laugh and take it as a joke. On top of that I think the solution would not help me achieve my goal, it would just be something cliche like "look at people as individuals and give all women a chance blah blah". 2. I know for a fact that meeting an Indian player or an Indian guy who has had a lot of success with attractive White women will surely do the trick. It will show me that it can be done and that being Indian is in no way a setback. 3. Talking about it in depth with some of the members here and having a nice discussion with them about it (success stories, why an Indian guy - White girl couple is so rare, how I can truly do well with White women in particular) that isn't confrontational will definitely help too. |
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| Author: | Psydaddy [ Wed Jul 17, 2013 2:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: MPUA: What is gonna kill my limiting belief for good? |
Well mate, i don't know why you are insecure about yourself like that, as i've said to you, you look cool, it's all on your mind! Also you should know that this PUA stuff is not about prettiness, it's all about assertiveness, and you are missing this part mate : ( You don't need to leave this forum, this is what makes you believe in yourself somehow, but it's up to you. I can recommend you to see infield videos of "project go" (you know where you can find them for free) there's an Indian guy which i believe it's the best from them, he knows exactly what to say and how to say it, the girls love him. So mate, don't become depressed about your race, you don't have to! That's stereotyping! Anyways, i would like if you could send me a message about your first big step on your life to try to get a girl, i would love to see that on my PM inbox! Send me details about how it went and how you did it! Even if it would be the last time i'll see you around. Best of luck mate, you can handle it! Girls don't care if you are black or white, they just want you to make them feel emotions around you, that's all you need. But this you have to find for yourself, when you find it you'll give reason : ) |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Wed Jul 17, 2013 3:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: MPUA: What is gonna kill my limiting belief for good? |
Coming from Atlanta myself, I've never seen Indian guys with white girls. Then again, I've never seen a lot of Indian guys there anyway or for that matter Indian guys who looked like they get girls in general. Actually, come to think of it, the one indian girl I dated had a friend who had a white gf but I digress. Either: 1. There are Indian guys getting white girls or 2. There are no indian guys getting white girls. If there are none, either you give up or be the first. Its that simple |
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