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| Author: | a3ghost [ Sun Feb 10, 2008 10:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Approach Anxiety and Being Asian |
So hey guys I know its pretty easy for preps (specifically Caucasian) to get along with other hot blonde cheerleading preps in high school. The problem is that I'm asian and I'm not a prep. The good news is that I'm a jock, meaning people in the athletic and cheerleading field know me. I'm also known in state as the number 1 ranked in my individual sport. Not only that but I am also a senior. My ex gf told me that i'm selling myself short; being an afc. I have some approach anxiety after reading the basic game material. I don't feel like I can approach preps and such because I'm not a prep. I dress differently and such. I feel like when an asian guy approaches them it would be a weird thing. Any other good PUA that is asian or something of that sort? I know latinos and blacks have it easy with them because their race is more common, but in my area there barely are any asians at school. |
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| Author: | Fact [ Sun Feb 10, 2008 11:46 pm ] |
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When it comes down to the different social groups they all socialize the same. In high school I wore fishnet and had jelled up hair down to my shoulders but I talked to everyone the same and they all reacted the same. The fact that people segregate themselves according to clothing style or race is not because they have nothing in common with people unlike themselves, it's because when everyone's sent out into a thriving social environment, no one can be alone so almost out of subtle fear they all group together on their visual commonalties when in actuality, they could find commonalties with someone who looks nothing like them. Disregard this natural visual segregation and you will go far in the social world. Good luck! Also, check out asian playboy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xuYO3j4pKKg |
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| Author: | bodywave [ Mon Feb 11, 2008 12:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Approach Anxiety and Being Asian |
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Any other good PUA that is asian or something of that sort? I know latinos and blacks have it easy with them because their race is more common, but in my area there barely are any asians at school.
Hmm .. I am asian and I am at the best shape in my life. I get IOI's from all kinds of different race. But I live in Toronto which is very multicultural city. However, just because you're one of the few asian dudes in your school doesn't mean that you cannot approach hot blondes. Here are some tips that will help you:1. be in style. stylish enough so that you don't look nerdy or goofy. 2. be well groomed. wear clean sneakers and clothes. Also, maintain clean skin. 3. smile when you talk to guys and girls. 4. SMELL NICE. Buy some nice colon and wear it EVERYDAY. Please don't buy cheap ones. When you have all of the above tips down, trust be me, chicks will notice about you. Then when you see chicks you like, just say hi with gentle smile. That's it .. just chat away and plan a meet ups. |
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| Author: | nietzsche [ Mon Feb 11, 2008 3:46 am ] |
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http://puapics.white.prohosting.com/ There are plenty of asians out there who can get some nice chicks. I actually think that chicks that are surrounded by white guys find other races more interesting. They're just waiting for you to go up and talk to them, trust me. I mostly noticed this with girls from not very diverse backgrounds being attracted to my black friend. I also have an indian friend who is ridiculously good at gaming. So basically...you're fine. |
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| Author: | minijag [ Tue Feb 12, 2008 4:41 am ] |
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Look at improving you're inner game. These guys are right, and so is your exgirlfriend. Clothes have nothing to do with anything. Think about it, do you think you would approach one 'type' of girl different from another? If you actually answered yes, then you're wrong. |
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| Author: | amogtilldeath [ Sat Dec 27, 2008 12:04 am ] |
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fake it till you make it... act as if you have a 12 inch cock... and youre the coolest motherfucker on the planet...when you believe that so will they good luck |
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| Author: | Stormy [ Sat Dec 27, 2008 12:15 am ] |
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Papa number-closed Paris Hilton. One of the biggest naturals I know is half Japanese. Your race means NOTHING. Neither does your clique. As long as you're decently calibrated, you'll be accepted anywhere. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Sat Dec 27, 2008 12:33 am ] |
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I'm a short non-athletic Asian who knows pickup and all my past "official" girlfriends have been hot blondes. As long as you don't fit the stereotypical mold your race will not work against you. It can only help by adding to your novelty. Use your race to your advantage instead of letting it produce limiting beliefs. |
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| Author: | Sinn [ Sat Dec 27, 2008 1:13 am ] |
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You don't have to be one of the preps to get a prep girl. (sidenote I feel funny writing this advice) All you have to do is fit into the stereotype of a guy she would date. Which you do... a jock. Go over there and proudly embrace the attitude of a jock who's number one in his sport. S |
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| Author: | stunt101 [ Sat Dec 27, 2008 9:21 pm ] |
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Those are some serious self limitng beliefs right there. Asian has nothing to do with it. It's actually an advantage because asians are seen as more non-threatening and comfortable to be around. Plus, most white women have never been with an asian man, so it gives a sense of mystery. Don't look at being asian as a disadvantage, with a strong frame, you can do anything. The reason you think that being asian sucks is because of all those other asians that are socially awkward. Be different and you'll impress the ladies. Get rid of your approach anxiety RIGHT NOW. Do a lot of approaches to people you don't find attractive and just talk to them. If you need more advice/information, just PM me. As for asian PUA's, check out Asian Playboy and his ABC's of attraction. |
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| Author: | roxstar [ Sat Dec 27, 2008 11:03 pm ] |
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there are tons of asian pick-up artists. I'm Asian and I love it. You have some limiting beliefs Quote: So hey guys I know its pretty easy for preps (specifically Caucasian) to get along with other hot blonde cheerleading preps in high school. The problem is that I'm asian and I'm not a prep. and it's not really helping you out a whole lot. I try not to see any boundaries. Most problems are in your head, and not what is really there.Quote: I have some approach anxiety after reading the basic game material.
it happens. just talk to a few people and get in the zone before you do that - youll feel a kind of high. talk to a couple people you dont usually talk to, a couple groups you dont usually hang out with, etc. then (hopefully) you get over your nerves, and are in the right state of mind to talk to them charismatically.i do this at school a lot. i just open up a group, start talking, maybe stay until the bells rings - then i talk to whoever i want. i also like to feel the anxiety when I'm in the car going to school - I go over what I need to do, and visualize what conversations go like and how a confident man does everything. then I take it from there. |
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| Author: | stunt101 [ Sun Dec 28, 2008 3:40 am ] |
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Dude, check this vid out. It will change your views on this whole asian limiting belief thing. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lj5D2i2O9D0 |
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