Unless you have really good (and i mean REALLY REAALY good) text game, I wouldn't text her to have conversations with her. Every text you send her will slowly put you closer and closer to the friend zone. The only time you should text should be to set up a date. Your initial texts weren't the best but I think you fully recovered with that text saying she would be smelly and how about another day. Like others said, don't seem too needy and like she's the prize. She should be unsure if you like her and think that you're the prize. My text game definitely isn't 100% right now so I really try to limit texting her as much as possible. I like to role play, it gives you an excuse to get sexual. An example would be similar to:
her: Hey thanks for a fun time. My mom was so worried about me bc I was off with some random guy she never met (this could be anything, just turn it around to make it sound like she did something wrong)
you: What! She doesn't even know about me? It's over NAME, We're getting a divorce. I'll take the house, you take the kids.
her: Oh baby dont leave me I'm sorry. blah blah blah (if she plays along you're golden)
you: Maybe I'll give this marriage one last shot, for the kids
her: blah
just play along for a minute then she'll say something else, you can turn that around on her too
you: Right when our marriage was starting to get better you make a comment like that. Well you know what, no make up sex for you NAME.
her: blah blah blah im sorry
you: sorry's not good enough. you need to be punished *breaks out the whip and chains*
As you can see role playing can give you an excuse to be sexual. Then next time she meets up with you she'll already view you as a sexual person. I had a similar conversation with a girl I went on one date with.
her. You just gotta stimulate her emotionally and get her involved. A good opening text is something that you already know about her from when you guys went out. Either that or a cliffhanger text, similar to: "You won't believe what just happened to me!". This will get her to respond to you then you can set up to ask her out on a second date. Don't send something like, "Hey what are you doing tonight? Want to go out to dinner with me?".
Instead have a plan that you're going somewhere whether she comes or not, and she's invited to come if she wants. Something like: "Sushi night, 7:00. Happy hour at Ahi Sushi. You should come!" You'll have a much higher success rate with this type of message, you seem less needy, and it seems like you're going to have a fun time no matter what. If she wants to join in on the fun, good for her. If not, its still gonna be just as fun. If she agrees to go then flakes later, you can bring up your marriage again. Like "uh oh, that right there is strike one... Better call the divorce attorney now."
Like I said I'm still not the best at texting so I try to keep it to a minimum. As for your current conversation, I wouldn't send her another message about going out tonight. See if she wants to go with you. If you don't hear from her, I'd freeze out for a few days before you try to invite her out again. If she flakes on you then you ask out the next day she'll be like "omg this guy is so needy he keeps asking me out every single night". But if you wait a week she'll likely be thinking about you and wondering when she is gonna hear from you again.
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. She thinks im quite, wtf. I honestly don't know how you she thinks that since I talked a shit load. But how I can change this?
