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Author:  Clabont [ Mon Jul 15, 2013 9:28 am ]
Post subject:  Critique/Advice on Escalation & Upcoming Date - Help!
I'm still sorta new to this but I'm pretty stoked on some recent results! This is kind of a double-post, but I felt that it was more applicable to this forum with where it's at since I last posted.

I have an issue with escalation. I'm very good at reading others and always accurate with it for anything marketing/job related. I don't know why it is different with girls, but I'm way less aggressive. Point being, I could really use some analysis on my online to text to date escalation on this one. While I feel like I did better than ever, I still feel like there is much to be learned and improved on and some criticism would do just the trick.

Lastly - this girl is insanely f'ing hot and I've had a vendetta to be with a Russian girl since I haven't yet. I'm also hoping that someone may have advice on things to do for the date as well to ensure success - whether it be certain good tricks for escalating or how to ensure the close. I need my A-Game. ;)

OKCupid: I initiated it

Me:
Jul 14, 2013 – 3:15am
Hey, how's it going? Are you studying your MBA @ UCSF? Stanford? Congrats on that... very admirable.

HB11.5:
Jul 14, 2013 – 3:49am
No, not there!:)

Me:
Jul 14, 2013 – 3:50am
Don't tell me you're going to Haas... are you?!

HB11.5:
Jul 14, 2013 – 3:51am
Nooo:) but almost all my profs are from Haas

Me:
Jul 14, 2013 – 3:55am
Okay... apparently I fail at the guessing game. Can I give up and you tell me?

HB11.5:
Jul 14, 2013 – 3:57am
Hult

Me:
Jul 14, 2013 – 3:59am
Ahhh! Gotcha. I've been taking courses at Rady's @ UCSD, but I've been stuck on the career track for awhile... so it's been preoccupying. What do you plan to do with it?

And what keeps you awake at this crazy hour?

I'm XXXXXXXXX, by the way.

HB11.5:
Jul 14, 2013 – 8:06pm
:) was doing some school project!:)

(at this point I didn't know if she was interested, considering that she didn't even answer the first question, or give me her name)

Me:
Jul 14, 2013 – 8:25pm
Uh ohhh... School project on a Saturday?! While I appreciate the dedication; you aren't the no-play, all-work type... Are you?

HB11.5:
Jul 14, 2013 – 8:26pm
I am a very responsible type :))

Me:
Jul 14, 2013 – 8:29pm
I like that... ok, congrats. You pass.

(I tried this to qualify her, just made it up sorta. Thoughts?)

HB11.5:
Jul 14, 2013 – 8:30pm
Pass what ?:)

Me:
Jul 14, 2013 – 8:32pm
The test! So now you can give me your number and we can continue our conversation quicker via text ​

HB11.5:
Jul 14, 2013 – 8:35pm
Haha, that's funny , but ok!:)

HB11.5:
Jul 14, 2013 – 8:36pm
###-###-####

(My thoughts: Holy shit, it worked!)

So, I open up with the standard opener. Conversation is below. I escalated quick because I felt like I had to, if that makes sense?

Image

I left it at that so I had the last word.

Mentally, I already know I have put her on a pedestal. She can't see it yet, but I don't want her to.

Any criticism/tips you all can provide on this is most appreciated.

Also, should I wait to message her until Tuesday and not tomorrow?
Author:  Clabont [ Mon Jul 15, 2013 2:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Critique/Advice on Escalation & Upcoming Date - Help!
Photo link was dead - didn't realize. Should be good now.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Jul 15, 2013 9:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Critique/Advice on Escalation & Upcoming Date - Help!
Have you really been to vegas 12 times? Or is this overt obvious joking?
Author:  Clabont [ Mon Jul 15, 2013 10:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Critique/Advice on Escalation & Upcoming Date - Help!
Hahaha. Honestly I think it's like 10-11. 12 maybe.

Tech expos and distributor shows are always there. It's pretty awesome.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Jul 15, 2013 10:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Critique/Advice on Escalation & Upcoming Date - Help!
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Hahaha. Honestly I think it's like 10-11. 12 maybe.

Tech expos and distributor shows are always there. It's pretty awesome.

Oh alright awesome.. Thats a lovely life.. Although; true or not, its distasteful to come off " bragging" like that. I know PUA's encourage something called " DHV ; which I think is utter bullshit. I never had to tell a lie or overly discuss the most exciting things in my life to get laid. I'm just cool, honest, and girls want to fuck me just because I'm confident enough to feel like they should.

All in all the text conversation was alright, now I just think you should call her up on the phone and show her who you really are.

Joey
Author:  Clabont [ Mon Jul 15, 2013 11:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Critique/Advice on Escalation & Upcoming Date - Help!
Quote:
Quote:
Hahaha. Honestly I think it's like 10-11. 12 maybe.

Tech expos and distributor shows are always there. It's pretty awesome.

Oh alright awesome.. Thats a lovely life.. Although; true or not, its distasteful to come off " bragging" like that. I know PUA's encourage something called " DHV ; which I think is utter bullshit. I never had to tell a lie or overly discuss the most exciting things in my life to get laid. I'm just cool, honest, and girls want to fuck me just because I'm confident enough to feel like they should.

All in all the text conversation was alright, now I just think you should call her up on the phone and show her who you really are.

Joey
Thanks Joey. I suppose I didn't mean that to come off as arrogant as it may have. While I'm confident, I always try to stay humble.

Would you call her today or tomorrow? She already said she was busy tonight, so I guess tomorrow afternoon?
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Jul 16, 2013 12:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Critique/Advice on Escalation & Upcoming Date - Help!
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Hahaha. Honestly I think it's like 10-11. 12 maybe.

Tech expos and distributor shows are always there. It's pretty awesome.

Oh alright awesome.. Thats a lovely life.. Although; true or not, its distasteful to come off " bragging" like that. I know PUA's encourage something called " DHV ; which I think is utter bullshit. I never had to tell a lie or overly discuss the most exciting things in my life to get laid. I'm just cool, honest, and girls want to fuck me just because I'm confident enough to feel like they should.

All in all the text conversation was alright, now I just think you should call her up on the phone and show her who you really are.

Joey
Thanks Joey. I suppose I didn't mean that to come off as arrogant as it may have. While I'm confident, I always try to stay humble.

Would you call her today or tomorrow? She already said she was busy tonight, so I guess tomorrow afternoon?
Yea.. just pick a random hour where its a bit of a surprise.
Author:  Clabont [ Tue Jul 16, 2013 1:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Critique/Advice on Escalation & Upcoming Date - Help!
Quote:

Yea.. just pick a random hour where its a bit of a surprise.
Shit...
I just realized.

I don't know her name.
Author:  TheFury [ Wed Jul 17, 2013 5:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Critique/Advice on Escalation & Upcoming Date - Help!
I think you chatted too much online before the number and texted a bit too much, but it got you the date so that is ok. Just confirm either the day before or day of; I would do it via text. Then just go on the date, have fun, make eye contact, kino, and be confident.
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