Alright so I want to spell out what I think I need help with as far as my approach and flirting with women goes. I have been mentally brought up the wrong way! I'm going to put all my effort into learning the Art of PUA. I'm sick and tired of being put in the friend zone when I want to use PUA to get her in bed.
I find that a lot of times I'm just being myself, but I need to stop this right away. I'm usually really funny (Possibly to the point that I look like a fool), Very Social and Outgoing for almost everyone. Some women I talk to say that if I asked them to marry me they would just out of the fact that I'm to nice of a guy to turn down (That's the last thing I want to hear). I'm still working out and getting in better shape. I'm doing pretty well with health and I've improved on my self image. All of that is working great. I've also had women tell me that I'm a player because they always see me talking or flirting with other women, but the girls that are telling me this are all girls that I would rather be PUAing.
Since my last post the 3 girls that were all over me, have now lost interest and could careless about giving me any attention what so ever. I think I've started becoming to myself around them. They've become comfortable with me. The one girl used to say that she really wanted to go out with a white bald guy (That's me) and now she's asking me if any of my friends look good? I really have improved as far as talking to women, but talking only gets you so far.....
Do I need to be more aggressive? I do work with these women, but most are not in my department, and we hang out mostly after work. I don't mind dipping my Pen in company Ink
Trust me when I tell you that mentally I feel capable of PUAing most of these women, but I lack the knowledge of escalating in proper phases (I think). My confidence has improved 100% since my last posts and scanning these forums.
I need to find out what I'm not doing properly to close with these women. Right now I know there are an abundance of Opportunities, and I don't want to miss them if I can help it.
I can answer any and all questions you have for me. Be blunt and up front with me, if the truth hurts I probably need to hear it.
I appreciate any feedback. Thank you for reading my post
