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Author:  bartm [ Sun Jul 14, 2013 4:12 am ]
Post subject:  help me salvage this situation
i saw this girl on the street a few weeks ago. she had just parked her car outside and was walking to her house. her hair style was something unique that you dont see everyday. It's hard to describe but it looks like this:http://tinyurl.com/pl47k3x

so I just stood there and stared at her. I was just speechless, I thought the hair was really cute. (please dont judge me for staring, i know it was a mistake)
she asked "what?" in a playful way
and I said "what?"
she said "well, you were the one who stopped"
I said "I dont know what you mean"
she kept walking towards her house.
I said "come here, I wanna tell you something"
at this point she was somewhere in the bushes, i couldn't see her anymore, but i heard her say "no"

then today I saw her by her house again and I said "do you remember me?"
she said "hi, it's you again"
I said "I am that creepy guy that was staring at you last week"
she said "you ARE that creepy guy that was staring at me!"
I said "I think your hair style is really cute. I just wanted to let you know that's the reason why I was staring"
she said "thank you"
Then I left.

all this time, she was smiling and not showing any signs of being uncomfortable. I can swear she is in the medical field, maybe a nurse. I love people in the medical field, they see so much crap every day that they dont get offended over a stupid joke.
so now my question is, have i already ruined it, or is there anything i can do if I ever run into her again?
Author:  Malcolm Thomas [ Sun Jul 14, 2013 4:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: help me salvage this situation
Hey, first off you didn't ruin anything at all, in fact you have begun to establish some rapport and comfort with her just by introducing yourself and making a joke of the situation.

The next time you see her, talk to her for a bit and then ask her out for a bite to eat or to get a simple cup of coffee. If she's interested, she will say "yes" and if not, you can move on with your life and begin talking to other women.
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