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Author:  zack89 [ Sat Jul 13, 2013 12:23 pm ]
Post subject:  I can't talk in loud clubs, where should I go to meet girls?

Every night starts the same. We meet up in a nice bar or at somebody's house. We talk, we laugh and I'm the life of the party. But then all of sudden everybody wants to go to a club. The girls want to dance and the boys want to binge drink. I don't like neither. I hate clubs. The only good thing about clubs, is that everybody is standing up and you can easily approach people. The bad thing is nobody hears a fuck what you're yelling at them.

What you guys do? You pick up girls outside clubs? You stick to daygame? You go to clubs where music doesn't exceed 100 decibels? (I don't think we have such clubs in Belgium...)

Author:  TheAnimal [ Sat Jul 13, 2013 1:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't talk in loud clubs, where should I go to meet gi

Yeah i prefer day game and when i am at a loud Club i go out to smoke and that is where i usually picks up girls, or as you mentioned outside The Club or at bars istead of clubs bc The Music isnt as loud

Author:  zack89 [ Sat Jul 13, 2013 9:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't talk in loud clubs, where should I go to meet gi

Any other replies?

Author:  DdOS [ Sat Jul 13, 2013 10:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't talk in loud clubs, where should I go to meet gi

You can always hunt outside of a club, many clubs have a space outside where people come to "take a break" that is where you come in. That's how i do it, also you can try using body language in the club instead of talking, i actually made a similar topic about a month ago, as i had the same problem, since then i stuck to the"in front of the club" area and it is working out fine, fish around for it if you want more info.

Author:  Peterpack [ Sun Jul 14, 2013 1:51 am ]
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"gutter game", gaming chicks out on the streets around nightlife areas is great

Still you can do ok inside a club. Look to isolate to quieter areas

Author:  VietnameseProdigy [ Sun Jul 14, 2013 2:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't talk in loud clubs, where should I go to meet gi

You don't need to talk in a club

Author:  Malcolm Thomas [ Sun Jul 14, 2013 3:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't talk in loud clubs, where should I go to meet gi

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Every night starts the same. We meet up in a nice bar or at somebody's house. We talk, we laugh and I'm the life of the party. But then all of sudden everybody wants to go to a club. The girls want to dance and the boys want to binge drink. I don't like neither. I hate clubs. The only good thing about clubs, is that everybody is standing up and you can easily approach people. The bad thing is nobody hears a fuck what you're yelling at them.

What you guys do? You pick up girls outside clubs? You stick to daygame? You go to clubs where music doesn't exceed 100 decibels? (I don't think we have such clubs in Belgium...)
It seems that clubs aren't really your favorite places to meet women. If I were you I'd begin approaching and talking to women during the daytime. It's easier, women are generally much more friendlier, and they can hear what you're saying :D

I actually recently wrote a new post on my blog talking about exactly this: The best places to meet cute girls and pick them up. You can check it out: http://womenattracted.com/how-to-meet-a ... e-it-easy/

Author:  skills360 [ Mon Jul 15, 2013 2:37 pm ]
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Every night starts the same. We meet up in a nice bar or at somebody's house. We talk, we laugh and I'm the life of the party. But then all of sudden everybody wants to go to a club. The girls want to dance and the boys want to binge drink. I don't like neither. I hate clubs. The only good thing about clubs, is that everybody is standing up and you can easily approach people. The bad thing is nobody hears a fuck what you're yelling at them.

What you guys do? You pick up girls outside clubs? You stick to daygame? You go to clubs where music doesn't exceed 100 decibels? (I don't think we have such clubs in Belgium...)

In the clubs keep talking minimally, is much of a body language, posture, dance, escalation game... If you dance my stuff will help you a lot, if you don't 60 yoc can help you tons...

Author:  Mayhem_ [ Mon Jul 15, 2013 3:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't talk in loud clubs, where should I go to meet gi

Great to see another belgian PU, it's pretty rare. Where in Belgium do you live?

I faced the same issues but as mentioned before there are 2 options, you either go outside the club to hunt, or you improve your non-verbal game. If you have a strong non-verbal game and you have some sweet dancing moves, girls will open you up quite often. If you scan clubs, there is hardly any action going on, so use it to your advantage to make the difference. If you settle yourself in, showed good value, opening up as mentioned (handshake, high-five) is piss-easy. Also, depending on the interest that you're getting, you can be quite aggressive when it comes to kino.

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